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Am I crazy?!?!

lisam1113 Posted:

Am I crazy?!?!

Okay so 2 of my BMs are wearing the same dress & my MOH they will be wearing a different dress. My MOH is out of state so I saw her dress on the maniquin & thru text & my 2 BMs with their dress. i was on DB website before on the part where you can 'dress your wedding'. Maybe it's just me & I'm freaking out over nothing.

My dress will have a sash & so will my other 2 BMs but not my MOH & my 2 BM's have fuller dresses (like mine) but my MOH doesn't... will this look bad for my MOH 'not matching'.

Here's the link to there dresses:

2 of BM dresses

MOH

Am I crazy for feeling this way?! Or does it not matter...
fdnybride163 Posted:

Re: Am I crazy?!?!

I think you should reverse it

Have your MOH in the pick up dress, and your MOHs in the straight one

this way it looks more like your dress and your MOH stands out more and your BMs are a little more sublte.
lisam1113 Posted:

Re: Am I crazy?!?!


Posted by fdnybride163

I think you should reverse it

Have your MOH in the pick up dress, and your MOHs in the straight one

this way it looks more like your dress and your MOH stands out more and your BMs are a little more sublte.



thisis going to be tough with them having there dresses already... MOH didn't like the pickups on her & 2BMs loved how the pickup dress fit.
fdnybride163 Posted:

Re: Am I crazy?!?!


Posted by lisam1113


Posted by fdnybride163

I think you should reverse it

Have your MOH in the pick up dress, and your MOHs in the straight one

this way it looks more like your dress and your MOH stands out more and your BMs are a little more sublte.



thisis going to be tough with them having there dresses already... MOH didn't like the pickups on her & 2BMs loved how the pickup dress fit.


ahhhh

well as long as they all love their dresses as is then you should have nothing to worry about!

they are beautiful!
Moonmist09 Posted:

Re: Am I crazy?!?!

personally, i am the type of bride where everyone has to wear the same thing, so this would bother the crap out of me, not having them match. i know the colors will match but still.
does your dress have pick ups similar to the BM dresses? If so, Iw ould have all the BM's wear that. I know for a fact that your MOH can reeturn that dress and get the other one. She may not have loved the dress, but as any MOH or BM knows - you don't have to love the dress, its not your day and just suck it up for one day and do it.
I was my sister's MOH and i HATED that dress, the color everything about it was all wrong for me. but i wore it and smiled and it made her happy.
end of story
lisam1113 Posted:

Re: Am I crazy?!?!

It is bugging the crap out of me 2 have there dress... I'm not liking the pick-ups anymore.. So the dress goes back tonight!! I called my 2 BM's & they completely understand how I feel & I called David's Bridal & they were so understanding I told them I had a stupid problem to ask & they said longs the dress hasn't been worn or altered they can exchange for equal or lesser value.. I'm so so so happy & I made sure with my BMs that I wasn't being all 'bridezilla' making them return there dress.. Now back to square 1 but thankfully David's Bridal isn't like weeks for it to come in!!! I'm so so so happy now

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