Am I normal?

is anyone else mentally exhusted from everything? Between planning the wedding, buying a home and trying to make everyone happy it's just wearing me out - i feel so drained - i wish i could take a vacation

Me too. Everyone says I should be enjoying this, but I am not - AT ALL! Weddings suck, IMO!

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Posted by SomethingBlu

Me too. Everyone says I should be enjoying this, but I am not - AT ALL! Weddings suck, IMO!

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WELL SAID!!

And I am SO SORRY about your hair and trial... That could add to the frustration too.

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Oh Soontobekunz, I'm so glad you asked this. I'm feeling the exact same way for all the same reasons. I have absolutely no motivation to finish the rest of the planning, and I wish we'd close on our house already! I'm sick AGAIN because I can't sleep...Ugh!

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Posted by SomethingBlu

And I am SO SORRY about your hair and trial... That could add to the frustration too.

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Thanks

I feel the same way. I'm tired of planning, of looking for a new job(moving to nj so i need to have a job lined up), of searching for a grad school, the stress of closing on our condo, and work. I'm just tired of it all and i don't want to do any of it at the moment!
At least now I know it isn't just me!

I feel on the verge onf a breakdown at least once a week and TRULY believe I would have been better off eloping. Some people may be made out for this wedding planning, not me.

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
CALGON TAKE ME AWAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

By the time we got to the 2-week mark, I was so DONE. I'd had all these ideas for little projects and touches I wanted to add. But I started a new job six weeks before my wedding and I was just over it. I wanted to be married to my DH and start our life. If we'd been trying to buy a house at the same time I would have had a meltdown.

We had to delay our honeymoon till December because we both teach, and as much as it would have been good to go away right after the wedding, I don't know how I would have dealt with trying to pack (as I am a very anal packer- I always travel light but that's really harder than taking everything! )

It'll come and go before you know it, and then you can relax!

You are very normal. This whole process is stressful. There are days I just want to scream. Just remember that it will be all worth the day of your wedding.

Normal? Right about now i wish i had flown to vegas and got married in the little white wedding chapel! I'm tired, sick of working out and tired of feeling guilty if i put a piece of food in my mouth...and not to mention if i have to make one more decision i'm going to scream...other than that....i'm peachy!

But, big picture.....it's almost here ....you're normal! try to keep smiling!

Same here....
its a lot of work...but it will all be worth it

I feel the same way. I was once interested in all the little details, but I almost don't care anymore.

What the heck did I think about before this?!?!?

We are closing on and moving into our new house the week after we get home from our HM. I just want my normal life to begin; I can't wait to see what that is.

Last week I had a breakdown (after a fight with FH) and I cried that I hate the wedding. Sometimes I feel like that when it all gets to be too much.

Only 4 weeks to go for me. Thank God!!!

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Posted by germai68

I still have so much time to go but FH and I already have started talking about staying in our apt for another year just to take stress off the situation.

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this is what we are doing, because it's just too much! I can't even plan a honeymoon either, because the idea of having to pack and get ready for that, as well as the wedding is giving me too much anxiety.

To add to this, I just got my 3 month-prior letter from my reception hall and it's got this huge-a$$ questionaire that needs to be completed when I bring in my payment and it's got so much on it that I don't know or haven't worked out yet. It came in the mail yesterday and ever since I've been stressed out. I can't imagine what it's going to get like, say in another month or 2. No one will want to talk to me at that point.

**hugs** You are not alone ;)