Am I overreacting...

madseason Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:19 PM

Am I overreacting...

FH and I dont live together...

Ive been sick since Monday. Im beginning to feel better. I havent really spoken to FH since Mon, nor have I seen him. I asked him to come watch a movie with me and hes hanging with the guys tonite!!
I am sooo bummed?? AM I right to be kinda mad??? Ive been talkin to you guys sooooo much more than him!!! (well thats not such a bad thing

jennandrolo Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:20 PM

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I would be too lol. Me and FH only see each other 2 days a week so any time we can see other extra I try to take advantage but he alllways has something else to do.

jteach711 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:22 PM

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Maybe we shouldn't be upset, but most of us girls would be. I know that especially when I am sick I want FH around, so try to remember we are girls and they are NOT.

Ilovebriani Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:25 PM

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i agree...i dont think you are over reacting. i would be upset too. i'm sure your FH does not think much of it or understand though. guys are different when it comes to things like that.

madseason Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:28 PM

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hes fighting with me now!! Telling me Im making him feel like crap!

Princess Cut Bride Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:30 PM

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I would be upset too!! You are not overreacting!!!

madseason Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:33 PM

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He just made me crryyyyyyyy so hard!!

I dont wanna know him right now!!!!

madseason Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:45 PM

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Sometimes I feel like im in this bymyself (sorry i just really need to vent)

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:45 PM

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i would be mad!! you should be his 1st concern..not the guys. and besides you're sick!

feel better btw!

madseason Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:47 PM

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thanks....he says its bc im sick...and when we get married I can tell him what to do... I was like whaaaaaaaaaaaaaa????????

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:48 PM

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Posted by madseason

thanks....he says its bc im sick...and when we get married I can tell him what to do... I was like whaaaaaaaaaaaaaa????????

madseason Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:49 PM

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YEA I didnt think I deserved that!!

bettybcafe Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:50 PM

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I personally would be pissed. FH and I dont live together either, so if I actually came up to him(or called) and asked him to come over and watch a movie with me..and he turns it down..I would be

Ilovebriani Posted: Feb 28, 2007 06:03 PM

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he is just not thinking right now!

truelove5803 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 06:06 PM

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awww lindsay, I would be mad. I mean, I live with FH, but back when we weren't together I used to have him come stay with me when I was sick. He's a trooper though. he's really good with stuff like that. Fell better honey!

dee143 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 06:07 PM

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dont worry thats a typical man move... honestly... it happens to me all the time... take comfort in the fact that its not you or your fiance... men just dont think think the way we do.

madseason Posted: Feb 28, 2007 06:11 PM

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wow guys...thanks...weve had some issues and he was just waaaay out of line in some of the things he said...i appreciate it!

Snowflake08 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 06:31 PM

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sorry, i have to agree though FH and i DO live together
if we didnt and he was sick or i were sick, we would not go see each other
neither of us can miss work or want to get sick so if that's his reason, he isnt wrong -JMO - then again, I'm always being told that i think like a guy LOL

sassygirl9 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 06:35 PM

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Posted by madseason

FH and I dont live together...

Ive been sick since Monday. Im beginning to feel better. I havent really spoken to FH since Mon, nor have I seen him. I asked him to come watch a movie with me and hes hanging with the guys tonite!!
I am sooo bummed?? AM I right to be kinda mad??? Ive been talkin to you guys sooooo much more than him!!! (well thats not such a bad thing

No you are not. Part of the reason you are bummed is also because you are still sick so you might be feeling a little more sensitive as usual. I know when I am sick I want my FH to spoil me and take care of me. You know he loves you.......