i'm really busy at work cause i've been letting things slide with the mentality that i'll get to it tomorrow... and now i realized that i'm leaving for my wedding/HM in a couple of weeks so i need to get on top of all my work. it's been non-stop all morning.
anyway, my FH and i have to work on our timeline and we need it done by friday... we've been putting it off. my fh has a hockey game tonight and he's going out with his friends to a bar tomorrow night - which leaves no time for us to sit and do it. i want him to skip his hockey game so we can get it done, but he doesnt want to. he said we can do it tomorrow during my lunch break cause he's meeting up with me. i dont want to rush through it within an hour. maybe im just being sensitive or stressed... but i told him im gonna do the timeline myself... but i would really like for him to help. blah.
i think i just needed to get that all out.
Lsorrent
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Is your FH really going to be of any help? I know mine has no clue about the timeline, so I'm just doing it on my own.
AwaitingAugust
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i would probably be feeling the same as you ... maybe you can work on it during your lunch tomorrow, and if it's not enough time, then he can cancel his hockey game ...?
mrsdraskin2009
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Take a deep breath and use your lunch hours to START working on the timeline...you still have some time so you can at least start working on it tomorrow and finish it up another night. That way, you won't have to rush through it. Breaking it up into small increments means you can fit it in your busy schedules.
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Posted by AwaitingAugust
i would probably be feeling the same as you ... maybe you can work on it during your lunch tomorrow, and if it's not enough time, then he can cancel his hockey game ...?
ITA not worth being upset over. I think u should sketch down what u think is best and then go over it with him at lunch getting his input on everything
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I think you should let him go to his hockey game. It may be his way of unwinding w all the wedding stress.
MR1223
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ok thanks ladies. i'll work on the timeline tonight by myself and i can review it tomorrow with him when he meets me for lunch. i just need to de-stress - i hate being this busy at work!
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What do you mean timeline? Like a layout of the day and how you want it to run? I doubt FH will be much help with that. And who needs it by Friday anyway?
MR1223
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Posted by jilliibabii
What do you mean timeline? Like a layout of the day and how you want it to run? I doubt FH will be much help with that. And who needs it by Friday anyway?
yes, a timeline of how the day is gonna run and what time people need to be certain places. i have to give it to my photographer on fri so he knows the schedule.
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Posted by jilliibabii
What do you mean timeline? Like a layout of the day and how you want it to run? I doubt FH will be much help with that. And who needs it by Friday anyway?
yes, a timeline of how the day is gonna run and what time people need to be certain places. i have to give it to my photographer on fri so he knows the schedule.
Oh, I did the same thing last week, but it was no big thing. It took me 20 minutes to do.
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do it yourself. youre betetr off.. what does he know anyway? u clearly know more about weddings than he ever will. thing of it as a blessing.. that he wont be around.. so u can get more things done
