Am I reading too much into what he says? (WAYYY too long, sorry!)

Okay, so i'll preface this, as i do with most of my posts, by saying I'm not engaged, and I'm only on here because after my engagement was broken off, these girls were amazing and I cant imagine not being e-friends with them (even though I haven't hung out with them in over a year!)

Anyway...so I'm a bigger girl who is in the process of losing weight. My boyfriend is like obsessed with picking me up, and I HATEEEEE being picked up so I usually throw myself to the ground in a hysterical fit of 'DONT YOU DARE LIFT ME OFF THIS FLOOR'.

The other day he tried to pick me up off the couch. It caught me off guard so he picked me up and like a fish out of water, i sputtered and flapped my way out of it.

He said 'Why won't you ever let me pick you up? I'm supposed to pick you up and carry you over....' and then he stopped talking.

Of course, my head first went to 'THE THRESHOLD?!?!' but I didn't say anything because I didn't want to freak him out in case thats not what he was thinking..

but my question to you... do you think that WAS what he was thinking? We're moving in together in a couple of months and he said to someone 'Yeah that's my girlfriend. We've been together like two years.' but we've only really been dating for about a year and 4 months.

I always read too much into what people say... but I want other opinions on this one.

It sounds like that to me.

But I was reading into everything when I wanted FH to propose. Just try not to let yourself take things as hints. I can't tell you how many times I came home from a weekend or a dinner disappointed. I was looking for hints in everything and the day he did it I was 100% shocked.

I don't think you are reading to much into it. Let's face it, most people when they date someone are thinking about the future and how compatible you are. Especially if you're going to be moving in together. It doesn't seem like he cares about your weight. I wouldn't concern yourself with it either aside from trying to be healthier which you already seem to be doing. If he wants to pick you up, let him. Why do you hate being picked up? Are you worried he'll know how much you weigh? Or that he won't be able to pick you up? Apparently he has already successfully lifted you. Don't squirm your way out of it. One of you might get hurt that way. Anyway, it sounds like he is really into you and I would just enjoy that. It's nice that he wants to embellish the length of time you are together.