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Am I supposed to get my Mother-In-law a gift?

LauraPete Posted:

Am I supposed to get my Mother-In-law a gift?

I feel like I should. But do I have to? FH's family is only paying for the rehearsal dinner but its not about the money. I just feel like I want to but then do I get my father-in-law a gift too?

Summerbride04 Posted:

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It's usually customary to give the parents gifts. It should come from you and your FH.

janwinterbridejoy Posted:

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you dont have to spend a fortune if you dont want give her a token gift like a hankie with thank you for having the man of my dreams on it. my mil loved that lol. you can also give them a nice picture frame or a good bottle of wine. your father in law a if he is a smoker ciger holder with a few cigars or a cigar cutter or lighter. if he doesnt smoke maybe tickets to a baseball game or a wallet

dm24angel Posted:

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I'm buying FMIL a hankie that says 'Thank you for rasing your son to be the man of my dreams'....corny I know but I think it's an inexpensive way to thank her....it was about $20 dollars.

LauraPete Posted:

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I LOVE that hankie idea! Sooooo cute! Now I have to think of something for FIL - he doesn't smoke.

Ronnie&Theresa Posted:

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I hope my MIL drops dead and she is lucky at this point to even be invited to my shower noless the wedding
nylisa Posted:

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MY FILs are getting a DVD of the wedding, a parent album and these.
I also wrote a poem for both parents and scanned a baby pic of each of us and put it on the cover (see pic 2).
BillysBride Posted:

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On top of getting them:
DVD, parent album, 8X10 pic & frame, hankies

my FMIL gets: a frame w/pix of FH growing up and a poem saying thank & how she raised a little boy and gave to me a man etc.... I can't remember the whole poem, but I can post it for you later if you want.

LauraPete Posted:

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Thank you Ronnie&Theresa for making me laugh so hard I almost chocked on my turkey sandwich...

brideinapril Posted:

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I got the hankie for my mil and I got my fil a money clip.

BCTM33 Posted:

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My future parents-in-law are only paying for the rehearsal dinner as well. We are getting them a parent book and that is probably it.

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