Am i the only one having nightmares!!

laurfiness Posted: Jan 13, 2009 07:16 PM

Am i the only one having nightmares!!

Things are flying off the registry, invitations are going out this week, fitting saturday trial thursday !!!...Things are just going way too fast and i keep having these reaccuring nightmares yes nightmares that its the day of the wedding and i'm not completely ready. Like my hair isn't done i missed my morning appointment and that the night flashes before my eyes and i haven't got to enjoy it ....I'm must be going crazy LOL

Please tell me this normal

Christaly Posted: Jan 13, 2009 07:21 PM

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No No No.... this is happening to me too! I'm sure it's normal, or we are both abnormal together

None of my stuff is ready in the dream, I don't have a DJ or hair/make up... I don't know any of the prayers... the only thing I have is my gown... and my day of coordinator who is the angel in my dream and I expect her to make everything better

The worst part is when I tell FH about the dreams he thinks it's because Im having second thoughts... so I can't really tell him about them.

I've never been so sure of anything in my life...

Well anyway don't worry about it!!!! I'm sure everything is going to go well... you'll be beautiful and everything will work out

Ella and Ben Posted: Jan 13, 2009 07:21 PM

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My wedding is 5 days after yours and unless I'm going crazy too, I'm having similar nightmares. Isn't that weird!?

gina409 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 07:23 PM

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its so normal dont worry..we have or will all get them

laurfiness Posted: Jan 13, 2009 07:29 PM

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Haha this is too funny...i only have my dress in my dream too

pooh57362 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 07:31 PM

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I'm right there with you girl!! At least once a week i have one - my vendors don't show up, everything is wrong, etcc....

Im a Pepper Posted: Jan 13, 2009 07:38 PM

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This is totally normal. I've been having bad wedding nightmares too! In my dream I'm always severely unprepared. Like, I must have stopped planning 6 months before and left everything until the last minute. In my last one, I forgot to hire a DJ!

Don't worry - just a dream! Everything will be perfect!

MrsBtobe2009 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 08:07 PM

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I have had about 5 so far....and everytime I wake up from them I wake up FH and make him do wedding stuff with me. I have these crazy dreams like noone shows up and my hair is done with a straightening iron and no veil and my dress doesnt fit......

Dont worry it is not just u....I am sure once I get closer i will have them more often too!!!

KerriJohnS Posted: Jan 13, 2009 08:17 PM

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It's normal. But I personally think you sound like you need to relax and take a deep breath. Take one thing at a time as it comes and try to not get overwhelmed. Enjoy your last months leading up to the most important day of your life so far. Hmm.. maybe getting a massage will help!

fabulousmady Posted: Jan 13, 2009 08:36 PM

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DATE TWIN!!! I feel the same way only i'm having 'day'mares!!! im totally freaking out that things will not be ready.
Work has been so busy that I just hvnt had all the time I need to get all my last minute things together!

gip32680 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 08:36 PM

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Well my dream goes like this...I just finished watching transformers, next thin you know I'm back at work and everyone is saying how beautiful I looked and that everything was so nice and they had a blast at my wedding. Now for the life of me I didn't remember getting married but everyone kept coming and talking to me about my wedding. I kept asking ppl for pics or video and everyone kept saying that they didn't have any or that they didn't come out or whatever. Bottom line I didn't remember my wedding and NO ONE had pics to show.
Now when I told FH about it his response to me was 'You might want to book the photographer before your dream becomes a reality' so I did and didn't have that dream again but now I just keep dreaming of me falling down the aisle .LMAO!!!!

misswitty Posted: Jan 13, 2009 08:40 PM

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YESSS!!!! ME TOO! My wedding's not until July but last night I had a nightmare that it was 30 mins before my wedding and I was an hour away in my mom's car that only drove in REVERSE no matter what we tried to do and I had no makeup, no hair, no shower, no dress. UGH! SCARY!!!!