Am I wrong?

GiannisWifey Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:17 PM

Am I wrong?

ok.......please don't quote.....

Lsorrent Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:18 PM

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Not necessarily. If you have a registry, maybe she's planning to buy you the same price point of items as the amount of cash you gave.

grkbarbie Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:18 PM

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ur not being weird at all.

eparty = money

shower = gifts

wedding = money

SummerBride10 Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:19 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

ur not being weird at all.

eparty = money

shower = gifts

wedding = money

I completely agree with this. I think thats what most people would assume.

Relish21 Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:19 PM

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hmmmm.... you can't force people to give you cash.... You need gifts eventually anyway. Register for more stuff! or ask for gift cards!

christine2010 Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:22 PM

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unfortunately people may not be in the financial situation to always give cash. so charging a gift is a little easier for them.

like Laura said, maybe she will purchase something of the same value.

Golden Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:23 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

ur not being weird at all.

eparty = money

shower = gifts

wedding = money

ITA!!!

GiannisWifey Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:23 PM

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KatieG2010 Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:25 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

ur not being weird at all.

eparty = money

shower = gifts

wedding = money

AGREED!!!

That's why I didnt register so early- so that all we got for our e-party was $$$$ eventhough our families don't really do gifts for parties.

gonzalezm3 Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:25 PM

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you can't force people to give you money but thats just me. a gift is a gift.

stinenandy2010 Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:26 PM

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i don't think so, when i get a gift i would expect the same back, so if i gave $250, i would expect $250 back.

latinaj Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:27 PM

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this is tough..i see where you're coming from but she might not have a great financial situation right now?is her wedding coming up soon?

maybe her gift (from ur registry) will be the same or better value?

MarjorieFrank Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:29 PM

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Posted by christine2010

unfortunately people may not be in the financial situation to always give cash. so charging a gift is a little easier for them.

like Laura said, maybe she will purchase something of the same value.

ITA.

Rosalind_75 Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:31 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

ur not being weird at all.

eparty = money

shower = gifts

wedding = money

i agree with this butttttt also agree with what laura said as well

Not necessarily. If you have a registry, maybe she's planning to buy you the same price point of items as the amount of cash you gave

im usless. sorry