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am i wrong?

jch8 Posted:

am i wrong?

Do you think I'm overreacting by being dissapointed? Sorry its long.

My Bach party is tomorrow, and all i know is that we are going wine tasting during the day...and then going out to din/bars at night.

1 of my friends from HS, has been kind of shady lately. She had a bf, for 2 1/2 years...but she broke up with him in March. They were kind of our couple - we always did everything with them (like 2-3 times a wk), and her bf and FH became close.

So since she broke up with him in March, I have seen her 3 times - once was my shower, once was my bday, and 1 other time for like an hr. Right after she broke up with him, she started dating someone else (pretty sure that was the reason she broke up with her bf).

The only times I have even talked to her since April, was her asking if her ex bf was coming to the wedding, and if he was bringing a date. And shes like sorry I'm so busy, but I'll def see you at the bach party!

So now, I find out this morning from my bff, who is planning the whole thing, that my friend is coming wine tasting, but the limo is dropping her off at the outlets afterwards (where her new bf works), so she can go to his cousins sweet 16.

I mean, shes coming during the day, but I just feel disappointed that shes not coming out at night, and that she has just been shady in general. Am I just being selfish? Especially cause she never even had the decency to tell me that she wasnt coming to the whole thing!!Plus, the bach party date has been set way before she would have been invited to the sweet16 by him! Obv if its a sweet16, she's known for a while!

Sorry, just needed to vent!!
halfbaked Posted:

Re: am i wrong?

I'd be disappointed, too. Unfortunately, without that common person in your lives, it seems like you're drifting apart. It s*cks, but it happens. I don't think I'd be angry, but definitely sad.
AngnShaun Posted:

Re: am i wrong?


Posted by jilliibabii

I'd be disappointed, too. Unfortunately, without that common person in your lives, it seems like you're drifting apart. It s*cks, but it happens. I don't think I'd be angry, but definitely sad.



ITA...
Lil OC Posted:

Re: am i wrong?

I agree with what Jill said. But she is still coming during the day and I really wouldn't be mad at her for coming at night.

jch8 Posted:

Re: am i wrong?

thanks for reading!

I'm not mad...more dissapointed. And the fact that she could have at least told me.

Its funny you say common person, because our group of friends make up most of the people at the bach party! So its not just her bf that we had in common. I'm not the only one that has said she's been shady lately either lol.

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