so FH and Host an annual NYE party, this would have been the 8th year that I know of, 4th that we have hosted together. FH's best friend and grooms man, and his fiance, one of my friends, have been invited, GM for the past 8, BM for the last 2. This is an annual thing, known way in advance.
We get notice YESTERDAY... Oh, we are going to NJ to go to a party there.
It was ok when we were told that GM had to work in NJ that day, we could understand, but he was off today, and will be off the rest of the week.
And since thy weren't going, others decided that they wouldnt go either because it wasnt going to be that big...
Are we wrong to be hurt by this? I mean, the DAY before the party when we have been planning it for months?
Alyssa79
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no, not at all. people are so f*ckin shady. i do not rely on ANYONE! My party tonight has been planned for a month and a 1/2 and the amount of people who have not responded is amazing. also the flip floppers...i don't know what i want to do tonight.
hey, my bridesmaid never even responded nor 2 of the groomsmen! talk about friends huh
RitasEngaged
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You are absolutely right for feeling that way. I would be pissed.
This is why I don't have friends - I can't deal with the nonsense
mosh424
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You have every right to be hurt! I would be too
This is why I opted to stay home on these holidays
Goldie39
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definitely not wrong to feel that way. that's not right at all. i hope it doesn't ruin your new year.
eternitybride
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it Kinda did, cause this is the one thing I look forward to all year, having the new years party and watching the ball drop with all our friends. I never had that growing up, so it really meant a lot to me to have it, and if all fell apart this year.
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it Kinda did, cause this is the one thing I look forward to all year, having the new years party and watching the ball drop with all our friends. I never had that growing up, so it really meant a lot to me to have it, and if all fell apart this year.
I think you should talk to your friends and explain how hurt you are. Maybe they will realize what jerks they were!
eternitybride
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GM probably realizes, BM not so much. She asked her FH 'is Janna Mad about New Years?'
Geeee, I dunno, what do you think?
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GM probably realizes, BM not so much. She asked her FH 'is Janna Mad about New Years?'
Exactly the reason why I don't like to be out on the holidays. You have every right to be hurt....but don't stress it ....Enjoy your New Year.
NikkiR515
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I would be hurt too.. Especially since it is such last minute notice. Try not to let it ruin your night though!
lori7570
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I would def be upset....I'm sure you planned a lot for this.
The person that really counted was there though....and that was your FH
rocketsummer17
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I would be furious right now if I was you...Your not wrong for being upset at all...
grkbarbie
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its classless of them to tell u the day b4 that they are going to jersey. id be pi$$ed, but fk them. i wouldnt spend another second being upset. ppl dont surprise me anymore.
i didnt want to have a nye party...or ANY party anymore. i shell out wayy too much money, for ppl to be ungreatful fks. but fh insisted on having 1 the nite b4 nye. only cuz allllll his friends called askin what to do. so he figured..'why not have every1 over'
i told him im tired of being everyones last resort. like :hey we have no plans, theres always something going on at will n barbara's house. lets call them' UGH
well we had 1. ppl came..pregamed,drank our booze and left to go party. i was INSULTED. my friend and her husband sayed, and we had a reat time with them
sorry this post isnt bout me,, im just venting..
but again, dont waste ur time being upset..they are classless idiots.
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i am so sorry your friends bailed on you at the last minute. i would be angry as well, it was something you prepared for and looked forward to... so i don't blame you. at least you had your FH with you by your side! Happy new year janna!
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You are right it isn't fair. That's why I try not to have plans with people, do my own thing.
