Am I wrong to be upset about this? ( a little long)
iBCraZ131
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Am I wrong to be upset about this? ( a little long)
I mentioned in my post earlier in the week that my MOH was driving me crazy. Well both of us (MOH and myself) are in another friend's wedding party next month. Neither of us is the MOH in that wedding party. So, we don't really have any real responsibilities besides the bachelorette party coming up. My MOH is waiting until AFTER my friends wedding to even start THINKING about doing anythign for my shower. I know she hasn't done one thing (and doesn't want to right now) because my friend that is getting married (who is also in MY bridal party) has been trying to talk to her about starting to plan my shower since OCTOBER. My MOH refused to discuss it, saying she had time and it's too early. I'm just really upset that 1. She doesn't care about either of our weddings 2. she could care less about my shower or starting to plan it. 3. I really want it to be a surprise, and if she's waiting until after my friend's wedding, then I already know that my shower won't be until May, because she won't have enough time to send out invitations for an April shower. Now I know this is probably petty, but I'm just really upset/angry with her. The minute anything wedding related comes up, she changes the subject, or completely starts to tune us out. I'm sorry this was so long, but I just wanted to hear your thoughts.
tricia3381
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Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this? ( a little long)
maybe u should ask her if she wants to step down and just be BM instead of the moh??
futureMrsR
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No, you are not petty for being upset about this-- it bothers you because you feel that it might not be that important to her. I am in the same situation, only reverse beacause my wedding is actually before my best friends, and I feel like she only thinks about HER wedding and does not even realize that she needs to be there for me now. I hope your friend realizes that as a MOH she needs to prioritize and treat you fairly. Good luck
jessandjimiswedding
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honestly, until i became engaged and started planning my wedding, i realized how crazy a wedding can get. and now i feel bad for all the weddings i was in in the past. so what i'm doing is i'm planning my shower myself. i don't want anyone else to plan it. b/c honestly, no one will care more than you do for your own shower. you probably don't want to do all of it yourself but i know that i want things a certain way and no one will put as much thought or care as much as me. so think about planning some of it yourself as an option. you may think this is the worst advice ever but i dunno, that's just how i feel.
