so my dress came in and i only wanted my mom and moh with me to try it on. I feel like if i tell this to my bms there going to get upset. what should i do? should i just invited everyone? i wanted it to be a surprise for them on my wedding day.
MrsB2BE
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The only people that have seen my dress is my MOH and my mother - I just 'neglected' to invite my other BM's and they didn't seem offended - I think they want to be suprised on the big day
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Congrats on getting the dress.
As to your question, nope. BMs can be surprised just as everyone else will. I only want my sis to come with me for fittings. I don't want to share the experience with my FMIL because my mom won't be there. She passed away two years ago.
leena07
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well there is this one bm that keeps asking if it came in. if i take her then everyone else is going to get offended. sensitive people!!
Kelly79
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I only invited my MOH to go with me. My mom lives in Vegas, so she was unable to attend, but I did send her pictures.
I have not shown anyone else the pics or the dress. It will be a surprise for everyone on my wedding day!
KRISTYRUSSELL
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No, you are not wrong, I didn't want anyone at all to see me in my dress, No, not even my bridal party or best friend or Mom, as I love the element of a surprise, thats just me though, its your day, do as you please...
leena07
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ok im feeling better now. just did not want anyone to get hurt.. but you cant please everyone !
StarryEyedBride
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No you're not wrong, it's up to you who you want to see your gown. Just be upfront and tell them you want it to be a surprise, if you avoid the question or say it hasn't come in...ppl might be offended. But if that's really how you feel, I think it's totally up to you and don't think ppl would be offended!
RGV07
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well you in the end decide , who to take to see your gown. its your chocie, anyways.
Love4Eva
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You are not wrong at all - some brides want all to see, and some want it to be a surprise. Its all up to you ... if you dont want any of the BM's to see - they should respect your decision.
One of my BM's kept asking me what my dress looked like - I explained it to her - but I was not giving her too many details... then she asked to see a pic, and then i just told her - I dont want anyone to see it - i want it to be a surprise - she understood!!!!!
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not at all! my mom wouldnt even let me take pics in it! some of my BMs have seen the dress but no one has seen ME in it except my mom , sister (MOH) and grandma (she bought it for me so she has to see it!) i totally agree with you tho and i dont think they will get upset - my girls understand
