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Princess Cut Bride Posted:

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FH's cousin is having an engagement party but we can't attend. they came to our engagement party and gave us a check ($175). Do we give them the same amount of money they gave us even though we are not attending?

failurebydsign Posted:

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thats a tough call..i would maybe do the same amount..but if they are more well off then you or they know that you have to save for a wedding maybe do 150..but i would probably give the same amount

dream426 Posted:

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I would do the same amount also even if you aren't going. Its a hard decision but I think that is what I would do.

Autumn08 Posted:

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I would give the same amount. Do they need anything from the registery if they are registered?

Princess Cut Bride Posted:

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That's what we thought but I wanted to hear other people's opinions.

TY!!!
Princess Cut Bride Posted:

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Posted by Autumn08

I would give the same amount. Do they need anything from the registery if they are registered?



I don't even know if they registered??!!! I should check it out!! Thanks
Autumn08 Posted:

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Posted by Princess Cut Bride


Posted by Autumn08

I would give the same amount. Do they need anything from the registery if they are registered?



I don't even know if they registered??!!! I should check it out!! Thanks



Not that there's anything wrong with giving money, most couples want that anyway. But I figured this way it's not like you are just exchanging the same amount of money back and forth since you are both engaged.
Princess Cut Bride Posted:

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Posted by Autumn08


Posted by Princess Cut Bride


Posted by Autumn08

I would give the same amount. Do they need anything from the registery if they are registered?



I don't even know if they registered??!!! I should check it out!! Thanks



Not that there's anything wrong with giving money, most couples want that anyway. But I figured this way it's not like you are just exchanging the same amount of money back and forth since you are both engaged.



I totally understand...thanks for your help.
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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I probably would give the same amount..depending on how close to them you are!!

I Love my bear Posted:

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I would say the same...you don't want to worry about I should of's down the line.

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