FH's cousin is having an engagement party but we can't attend. they came to our engagement party and gave us a check ($175). Do we give them the same amount of money they gave us even though we are not attending?
failurebydsign
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thats a tough call..i would maybe do the same amount..but if they are more well off then you or they know that you have to save for a wedding maybe do 150..but i would probably give the same amount
dream426
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I would do the same amount also even if you aren't going. Its a hard decision but I think that is what I would do.
Autumn08
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I would give the same amount. Do they need anything from the registery if they are registered?
Princess Cut Bride
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That's what we thought but I wanted to hear other people's opinions.
TY!!!
Princess Cut Bride
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Posted by Autumn08
I would give the same amount. Do they need anything from the registery if they are registered?
I don't even know if they registered??!!! I should check it out!! Thanks
Autumn08
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Posted by Princess Cut Bride
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I would give the same amount. Do they need anything from the registery if they are registered?
I don't even know if they registered??!!! I should check it out!! Thanks
Not that there's anything wrong with giving money, most couples want that anyway. But I figured this way it's not like you are just exchanging the same amount of money back and forth since you are both engaged.
Princess Cut Bride
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Posted by Princess Cut Bride
Posted by Autumn08
I would give the same amount. Do they need anything from the registery if they are registered?
I don't even know if they registered??!!! I should check it out!! Thanks
Not that there's anything wrong with giving money, most couples want that anyway. But I figured this way it's not like you are just exchanging the same amount of money back and forth since you are both engaged.
I totally understand...thanks for your help.
Mrs. V 2008
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I probably would give the same amount..depending on how close to them you are!!
I Love my bear
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I would say the same...you don't want to worry about I should of's down the line.