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An update from my extremely bad morning

Sandradv121 Posted:

An update from my extremely bad morning

So, I was all set to quit. My desk was packed up, and I have my resignation letter to go. Than FH called me and told me to come home tonight and talk it out so we can make an adult decision about this. He told me to just take a job for the sake of having a job for now. He said we will have a harder time buying a house if I just up and leave. And he than mentioned that he has some ideas that he would like to discuss with me.

I did, however, inform my supervisor that I will be leaving by April. She's in the same boat as me, and understands completely. I promised this to her and told her also that I will only give a 1 week notice upon accepting a job offer.

With that said, I guess I'm half way out the door. But FH really wants to talk to me first before doing this. I know what I was doing was very rash this morning, but I just couldn't stomach the abuse anymore. But I can't let him down either, because we are team in this.

I will keep you updated on my further actions, but to be honest with you, I think my future here is very very grim. Hopefully FH has some ideas that will help the situation.

Thank you all for your support though. Honestly, this has been such a friggin rough time in my life that I would totally break down if you all weren't here for me.
Future Mrs H Posted:

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Sandra- we are all still here for you. FH is probably right in talking it out before you quit. I totally understand why you wanted to do it this morning and you still have to think about your health above all else. But maybe by talking to FH you both could come up with something.

Good Luck hun

RaeloveMeg Posted:

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Hey i think you said the right thing-- your in this together and yo can't let him down. You would be putting alot on his shoulders with the wedding/ supporting you if you leave your job. I think you made the right decision!!!! Just breathe....

barbtony Posted:

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Hang in there Sandra - everything happens for a reason!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cateydee Posted:

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mariedsgn Posted:

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It's almost April!
Iluvpoodles Posted:

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You have to do what you have to do..

SummerBride10 Posted:

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Take care of yourself, first. Everything will eventually work out
joctorre Posted:

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We're here for you. FH sounds like he's being very reasonable and supportive... Keep us posted... Glad that you at least have someone to talk to a little bit at work. That always helps too!!!
Jna2010 Posted:

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SparklingBride10 Posted:

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Keeps us posted!!!
AdriandSteve Posted:

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Talk to FH and see what he says. You verbally have 1 foot out the door but if you do decide to stay it sounds like your supervisor is supportive of any decision you make which is very helpful.

bluj786 Posted:

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im in the same boat as you, and FH told me the same thing. you have to do what you have to for now. i cant stand my boss and cant wait to get out of there but, for now i still have a job.


do what im doing. start going on interviews now, so if u get something you can leave sooner if u have too!

hang in there!!

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