Ok...so I have a BM who recently broke up with her boyfriend...who I am also close with, I became friends with the both of them when they started dating, I didn't know the other prior. Now they are no longer together so I am sending them both invites. She just asked me if I was inviting him with a guest and is begging me not too. I told her I am inviting every single with a guest, including her. He is my friend as long as she is. Should I make the concession or stand strong against her?
Espo22
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Hmmm that is a tough one...how long have you been friends with her and how long have you been friends with him? also did you meet him bc she was dating him? See there will be ex's of my friends at my wedding, but they are FH's friends, plus they dont mind...Depending on your friendship with him then just think about your friend for a moment and maybe doing what she requested...also how long were they together?
It's tough, good luck
danibrwneyes
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This is a tough one. But in my opinion, both should be invited with guests and both should understand that it is your wedding and you are friends with both of them. It is your day and those who mean the most to you you want there...including your BM and her ex who is your friend. She should understand.
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Ugh, people annoy me with requests like this. I would offer to not sit them at the same table, but that's it. Everyone should be mature enough to handle being in the same room as each other. This day is to celebrate you and your FH, not to accommodate everyone on the guestlist!!
End rant.
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I would not give in on this one. Three months is a long time. One of them may be in a relationship and want to bring a date. Why should they be the only two people invited without dates?
I agree with the prior person, seat them seperatley and that is it.
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Posted by Espo22
Hmmm that is a tough one...how long have you been friends with her and how long have you been friends with him? also did you meet him bc she was dating him? See there will be ex's of my friends at my wedding, but they are FH's friends, plus they dont mind...Depending on your friendship with him then just think about your friend for a moment and maybe doing what she requested...also how long were they together?
It's tough, good luck
I have been friends with both of them for an equal amount of time. I started being friends with them when they were dating already! She always goes on and on about how she is over it and all this but then this pops up and she flips. Screw that...I won't sit them at the same table and they can just deal. And who is to say he will even bring someone and also she might meet someone between now and then!
Blah!
Marchbride07
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Posted by BubbasBride
Ugh, people annoy me with requests like this. I would offer to not sit them at the same table, but that's it. Everyone should be mature enough to handle being in the same room as each other. This day is to celebrate you and your FH, not to accommodate everyone on the guestlist!!
End rant.
Rant on babe! LOL that is what we are here for and I am glad you agree with me!
Espo22
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Hmmm that is a tough one...how long have you been friends with her and how long have you been friends with him? also did you meet him bc she was dating him? See there will be ex's of my friends at my wedding, but they are FH's friends, plus they dont mind...Depending on your friendship with him then just think about your friend for a moment and maybe doing what she requested...also how long were they together?
It's tough, good luck
I have been friends with both of them for an equal amount of time. I started being friends with them when they were dating already! She always goes on and on about how she is over it and all this but then this pops up and she flips. Screw that...I won't sit them at the same table and they can just deal. And who is to say he will even bring someone and also she might meet someone between now and then!
Blah!
oh ok, sorry i thought maybe you became friends with him bc of her...yeah then she can't really say anything...the only way she could is if he were to do something stupid, but doesn't sound like that type of break up or anything.
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Posted by danibrwneyes
This is a tough one. But in my opinion, both should be invited with guests and both should understand that it is your wedding and you are friends with both of them. It is your day and those who mean the most to you you want there...including your BM and her ex who is your friend. She should understand.
i say the same.....just dont sit them at the same table
