And now I'm feeling bad/guilty...all those lovely sisterly feelings...
Okay, well you've all heard about my MOH sister (sister #2) who is this crazy creative graphic designer person. She's totally taken over the creative stuff- but it's good for me! But then I feel bad...I have another sister/MOH!! And she's wonderfully creative too, but my other sister is just a freight train - can't stop her!! I feel like we're leaving my other sister out (sister #1)and I HATE it.
I talked to sister #1 about it today, and I said we have to find a job that she can just take over. In a nutshell, my sisters are close in age and have jealousy/competition issues so they're not always great at working together. I've always been in the middle of this being the baby- it S----cks!!! I just hate feeling like sister #1 gets left out because she probably feels we don't need her ideas because sister #2 is just a whirlwind!. It's just tough when I really want them to be equally involved. I did mention this to sister #2, that I wanted to give #1 a job to do, and she said, yeah, just give her the bachelorette party! But I still feel bad! How would you handle this situation?
Man, I thought using sisters would be less drama- I'm really starting to regret not having my friends in my BP! I love both of my sisters but I just feel so bad...I want to make it a great experience for everyone!! And I've seen sister #1 with other weddings, she gets so into planning, but here she's taken a backseat and I feel so bad!!
Anyone else in a similar situation out there?![]()
I talked to sister #1 about it today, and I said we have to find a job that she can just take over. In a nutshell, my sisters are close in age and have jealousy/competition issues so they're not always great at working together. I've always been in the middle of this being the baby- it S----cks!!! I just hate feeling like sister #1 gets left out because she probably feels we don't need her ideas because sister #2 is just a whirlwind!. It's just tough when I really want them to be equally involved. I did mention this to sister #2, that I wanted to give #1 a job to do, and she said, yeah, just give her the bachelorette party! But I still feel bad! How would you handle this situation?
Man, I thought using sisters would be less drama- I'm really starting to regret not having my friends in my BP! I love both of my sisters but I just feel so bad...I want to make it a great experience for everyone!! And I've seen sister #1 with other weddings, she gets so into planning, but here she's taken a backseat and I feel so bad!!
Anyone else in a similar situation out there?
