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And the cancellations Begin.....

Lana and Johan Posted:

Re: And the cancellations Begin.....


Posted by mybabylovesmoi


Posted by adelz

This was the only part of the wedding that gave me a headache...people cancelling out of nowhere the week before the wedding, or actually my favorite was 2 days before wedding. Ugh.




I had three. All VERY last minute. one was the day before the wedding, and two I found the day of. Only one had a good excuse because her father died

a date of DH's friend, however, got into a FIGHT that friday and got a black eye and didn't want to come. really classy

eta; the other was the dad of a family of four. He had teeth surgery or something and didn't feel well enough to come. The whole family gave us a very generous gift so they get a pass



Lana and Johan Posted:

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Posted by VCanizalez


Posted by Lana and Johan


Posted by VCanizalez

So Sorry chcia!!!!

But at least u didnt give ur final #


Sorry


DNT WORRY WE WILL PARTYYY N HAVE TONS OF FUN



Thanks lookinf fwd to it :)



IT WILL BE AMAZING!!
WITH 195 IT WILL BE GREATTTTT

Im ready for Bachata Russian


mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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Posted by rosatemp


Posted by mybabylovesmoi


Posted by adelz

This was the only part of the wedding that gave me a headache...people cancelling out of nowhere the week before the wedding, or actually my favorite was 2 days before wedding. Ugh.




I had three. All VERY last minute. one was the day before the wedding, and two I found the day of. Only one had a good excuse because her father died

a date of DH's friend, however, got into a FIGHT that friday and got a black eye and didn't want to come. really classy



geez how old is he that hes getting into fights and black eyes...and that is a dumb excuse wear friggin sun glasses all night



it was a GIRL, his date (DH and I never met her) and I had strong reservations about her since they are constantly on and off it seems.

on hindsight, i am glad she didn't come because she sounds like a mess
rosatemp Posted:

Re: And the cancellations Begin.....


Posted by mybabylovesmoi


Posted by rosatemp


Posted by mybabylovesmoi


Posted by adelz

This was the only part of the wedding that gave me a headache...people cancelling out of nowhere the week before the wedding, or actually my favorite was 2 days before wedding. Ugh.




I had three. All VERY last minute. one was the day before the wedding, and two I found the day of. Only one had a good excuse because her father died

a date of DH's friend, however, got into a FIGHT that friday and got a black eye and didn't want to come. really classy



geez how old is he that hes getting into fights and black eyes...and that is a dumb excuse wear friggin sun glasses all night



it was a GIRL, his date (DH and I never met her) and I had strong reservations about her since they are constantly on and off it seems.

on hindsight, i am glad she didn't come because she sounds like a mess



thats true one less thing to worry about...anyways your wedding was so pretty so it worked out perfectly that he cancelled!
sujeire Posted:

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Posted by Cataverri


Posted by Lana and Johan


Posted by Cataverri

Whats your final number as of now?


195



I say you pay for 190. Theirs always a few that wont show up the day of.



I did this as well. I think I had a head count of 210 but only paid for 190. I had 2 cancellations 2 days before the wedding and 2 couples didn't show up. I was happy I didn't pay for the full 210.
leesah85 Posted:

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are you under your minimum at this point?

sorry about the cancellations love
Cataverri Posted:

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Yes I paid for all my 100 guest and 5 didnt frigging show up....4 of them had a validate excuse but either way it sucks.

JandS Posted:

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Sucks, def not looking forward to this.

Lana and Johan Posted:

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Posted by leesah85

are you under your minimum at this point?

sorry about the cancellations love


No we met our min but still sux. Did u ever find out if u can come :)
Jennielee15 Posted:

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Posted by CantWaitMrsH

You didnt give your final number yet did you? Technically they should allow you to change it at this point, youre still 10 days out!

We had just one cancellation at the last minute, but she had a baby! So we only had to pay for one extra guests that wasnt there. Everyone showed up on that day happily!

Sorry ... Maybe you can adjust it by a few just in case if youve met your minimum. I would take like 4 off and then add more the day of just in case. It shouldnt be an issue.



Yes she dis have a baby and he is the cutest!!'! Have you seen Mason yet? Did you know Gene tried to get her dinner to ho and they said no. I don't think they realised it was foe someone you paid for though. They probably thought he just wanted an extra meal to take home to his wife!!! Haha!
CantWaitMrsH Posted:

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Posted by Jennielee15


Posted by CantWaitMrsH

You didnt give your final number yet did you? Technically they should allow you to change it at this point, youre still 10 days out!

We had just one cancellation at the last minute, but she had a baby! So we only had to pay for one extra guests that wasnt there. Everyone showed up on that day happily!

Sorry ... Maybe you can adjust it by a few just in case if youve met your minimum. I would take like 4 off and then add more the day of just in case. It shouldnt be an issue.



Yes she dis have a baby and he is the cutest!!'! Have you seen Mason yet? Did you know Gene tried to get her dinner to ho and they said no. I don't think they realised it was foe someone you paid for though. They probably thought he just wanted an extra meal to take home to his wife!!! Haha!



We havent met Mason but we've seen photos online ... We just returned from our HM on Wednesday and I was rushed for a medical test the other day. On bed rest ever since ... never a dull moment.

Anywho, we were not aware that he tried to take food home for momma, but per our contract no food was to be packaged and brought home. It is against the county code for our venue in the event someone became sick etc.

Edit: Clearly on bed rest I cant spell!
Jennielee15 Posted:

Re: And the cancellations Begin.....


Posted by CantWaitMrsH


Posted by Jennielee15


Posted by CantWaitMrsH

You didnt give your final number yet did you? Technically they should allow you to change it at this point, youre still 10 days out!

We had just one cancellation at the last minute, but she had a baby! So we only had to pay for one extra guests that wasnt there. Everyone showed up on that day happily!

Sorry ... Maybe you can adjust it by a few just in case if youve met your minimum. I would take like 4 off and then add more the day of just in case. It shouldnt be an issue.



Yes she dis have a baby and he is the cutest!!'! Have you seen Mason yet? Did you know Gene tried to get her dinner to ho and they said no. I don't think they realised it was foe someone you paid for though. They probably thought he just wanted an extra meal to take home to his wife!!! Haha!



We havent met Mason but we've seen photos online ... We just returned from our HM on Wednesday and I was rushed for a medical test the other day. On bed rest ever since ... never a dull moment.

Anywho, we were not aware that he tried to take food home for momma, but per our contract no food was to be packaged and brought home. It is against the county code for our venue in the event someone became sick etc.

Edit: Clearly on bed rest I cant spell!



Sent you FM!!!
leesah85 Posted:

Re: And the cancellations Begin.....


Posted by Lana and Johan


Posted by leesah85

are you under your minimum at this point?

sorry about the cancellations love


No we met our min but still sux. Did u ever find out if u can come :)



oh good i'm glad you met your minimum - i was praying for you! :pray;

unfortunately can't make it that day

but i cannot wait to see your gorgeous pictures!!!!! i'm so excited for you!!!



so close!!!!
FDNYwife1029 Posted:

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Just wondering (can anyone answer?)

What happens if you pay for say 190 and 200 show up ?
ColliMac23 Posted:

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Posted by Cataverri

Yes I paid for all my 100 guest and 5 didnt frigging show up....4 of them had a validate excuse but either way it sucks.





I had 5 that didn't show and 3 gave no excuse haven't heard from them!
sujeire Posted:

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

Just wondering (can anyone answer?)

What happens if you pay for say 190 and 200 show up ?



I don't think this is a big deal. My sister invited 200 and 230 showed up. 30 extra people arrived after dinner so they only charged her for drinks. I'm sure they will find seats for them but you must be prepared to pay for all those extra plates..
Lana and Johan Posted:

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Posted by sujeire


Posted by FDNYwife1029

Just wondering (can anyone answer?)

What happens if you pay for say 190 and 200 show up ?



I don't think this is a big deal. My sister invited 200 and 230 showed up. 30 extra people arrived after dinner so they only charged her for drinks. I'm sure they will find seats for them but you must be prepared to pay for all those extra plates..



I rather pay for people that are there than people who dont show up :)
sujeire Posted:

Re: And the cancellations Begin.....


Posted by Lana and Johan


Posted by sujeire


Posted by FDNYwife1029

Just wondering (can anyone answer?)

What happens if you pay for say 190 and 200 show up ?



I don't think this is a big deal. My sister invited 200 and 230 showed up. 30 extra people arrived after dinner so they only charged her for drinks. I'm sure they will find seats for them but you must be prepared to pay for all those extra plates..



I rather pay for people that are there than people who dont show up :)



ITA!!
FDNYwife1029 Posted:

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what happens payment wise???? does the hall charge you at the end of the night for the extra ppl?

sujeire Posted:

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

what happens payment wise???? does the hall charge you at the end of the night for the extra ppl?



I think they let you slide if you have 1 or 2 extra people..but yes they will charge you at the end of the night.

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