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And the MOH Drama continues....(long)

OCT1203 Posted:

And the MOH Drama continues....(long)

Well for all of you that know about me and my former MOH...it is officially over. She called me yesterday leaving this weird message about how she didn't like the email I sent and that I should have called her instead.

Let me tell you I have no idea what this girl was talking about. I have not even tried to contact her since she told me to have a nice life and she no longer wanted to be my MOH. So I send her an email explaining this to her and asking her to send me the email because I am concerned some one else is pretending to be me and also tell her that I have come to terms with her decision and wish her the best. I only asked her to give my goddaughter the things I will send to her and tell her they are from me.

She then writes back telling me I am heartless because i have dismissed her so easily and she can't understand how I could do that. Um, excuse me but your the one that told me you didn't want to be in my life anymore. Then goes on to say my goddaughter will never know of me and don't bother sending anything to her because she will just through it out.

Well, I finally got to tell this b!!ch pretty much everything I wanted to and told her never to contact me in anyway and that she was dead to me. I also figured out the email was just a lie to get me to call her. People are so childish. So hopefully it will be over because I don't think I can take anymore. I'm actually starting to get chest pains from all the aggrevation. Thanks for listening
dubliner Posted:

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Sorry you have this added stress - hopefully this is the end of it

Sassy Posted:

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OMG
So sorry you're going thru this. Like they always say, you find out who your real friends are during weddiing planning, true colors come out.
So sorry
OctBride03 Posted:

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WOW!!! I'm so sorry you had to go through this!!! I am glad you have come to terms with this. This must've been really hard for you. Enjoy the rest of your planning!
Stavia Posted:

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I am really sorry your going through this. Here is a hug for you , hang in there.
OCT1203 Posted:

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Thank you everyone!!! Well a happy thing that happened yesterday was i picked up my invites
Leap29 Posted:

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wow....i'm so sorry that you had to go through all of this....

at least now you can move on & enjoy the rest of your planning....i'm sure you will have a beautiful day!!!

congrats on picking up your invites....
wnj Posted:

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I haven't read everything you're been posting regarding the drama but I definitely read this.I agree that you do not need to be stressed. However, please consider what type of relationship you have had over the years with this person. We all say alot of things we don't mean in the heat of the moment. Two of my bridesmaids are friends I stopped speaking to for 2 years over what is now considered foolishness and one of them is ironically the mother of my Godson. When we reconciled the friendship he did not even remember me. You still have a few months so do yourself a favor and just step back & take a really long hard look at the situation. Ultimately choose the decision that works best for you but really consider how much this persons means to you now and what type of friend she has been over the years. Good Luck!

taraalissa Posted:

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God knows I understand what you are going through. I have my own MOH drama. My conclusion is this- some people are just no good. Anyone who would do this kind of crap to someone concerning their wedding is just- for lack of a better word- evil.

Let it go. She is a jerk.
avesur Posted:

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Just ignore her! and take care of yourself, you can't get sick now! You happiness and health come first!
balilove Posted:

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a hug for you and your goddaughter, whose mother apparently has a screw loose. That poor child.
Paiz Posted:

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Um, excuse me, can you say Satan? Is this girl for real? You are better off without her, in my opinion. And for her to hold your relationship with your Godchild over your head is inexcusable.

You truly are better off without this psycho and lucky to have found out about these tendancies now...

Don't let her get you down. The best revenge is to have a happy and healthy life with your FH.
mv1003 Posted:

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I'm sorry you have the stress of dealing with this b.s. I'm also sorry that you had to find out what type of a person she is now! I know, pesonally, how disappointing people can be when you need them the most.

Just know that, it's her loss. I'm sure your friendship is genuine and unconditional, doesn't sound as if she's that type of friend. Who needs that?

Glad you got your invites concetrate on the good things and what this planning process really means!

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