annoying aunt

annoying aunt

For a while now my aunt has been really cold to me and I just found out today (by my grandmother) that she is pissed b/c I didn't put her 14 year old daughter in my bridal party! I can not believe this. I have no desire to put her daughter in the bridal party - (especially since I can't stand the girl). I am not sure how to deal with this issue - -

Re: annoying aunt

I say ignore it and be cordial to your aunt when you see her. this is your day.. not hers! If she wants to be pissed off, let her.

Re: annoying aunt

It's not worth even aggravating yourself over (unless you were at one point close to this aunt). You have enough stuff to worry about, she'll get over it eventually.

Re: annoying aunt

there's nothing to deal with--i say kill 'em with kindness. smile and be nice to your aunt and let her be the petty cold one. she'll get over it.

Re: annoying aunt

What on earth is a 14 year old girl supposed to be? Certainly not a flower girl. Your aunt will eventually get over it and hopefully realize this is all about YOU! good luck!

Re: annoying aunt

ignore it

Re: annoying aunt

o brother! people can be soooo petty! honestly i would just let it go....since she didnt mention it to you obvioulsy its not worth mentioniing to her....and if she does say something to you then just tell her you arent going crzy !!!

Re: annoying aunt

i would tell your aunt that u didn't want young kids in the bridal party

Re: annoying aunt

I am with you on this one. My aunt wants my cousin in my bridal party but I already have 8 guys and I barely talk to my cousin. I have just been ignoring her but she is giving my mother a hard time.

Re: annoying aunt