So I had a bbq this weekend for my bday with my friends and FH's friends. A lot of his friends have g/fs that I really like. One I see a decent amount when I go out with FH. She started talking about then she gets engaged to her b/f how she will be going to Vegas for her bachelorette party and how I have to go with her. I dont think she has a lot of girlfriends and I was like of course I would go! So then I asked her to come to mine (I had been thinking about it for a while and figured it was a good time). We arent close close friends but I see her enough in group situations and really like her. The only problem is that there is a tiny language barier...she is Dominican and speaks English pretty perfectly and understands it great but doesnt completely understand how some customs work here. So she was like awww I would love to go but she wanted to know if she could invite a friend of hers since she doesnt know my other friend. So now I dunno what to do. Should I just say its okay to bring the other friend? Not invite her anymore? I'm not quite sure how to handle the situation. TIA.
I thought about inviting another one of FH's girlfriends but I just dont feel close enough to any of them to really ask them. I see and talk to this girl when we go out and she is also the best mans b/f so it's a bit different.
cateydee
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well i guess at this point it would be hard to *uninvite* her. what if you invite another one of your mutual friends (like you mentioned). wouldnt that be better than her bringing another friend who you dont even know?
or maybe you can introduce her to your friends and hang out a few times together so that she starts to feel more comfortable around them?
AdriandSteve
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I think it's ok to invite her with one friend.
Panamasweet
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If you invite her friend would it cost you whoever is hosting any additional money? If not i would say invite her. thats just more people for you to have fun with
Lsorrent
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If it's just one more friend, why not? The more the merrier.
Dean Bean
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I think it's ok to invite her friend. She might be a lot of fun!
jcreilly
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just let her bring her friend otherwise you may be stuck hangout with her all night since she does not know anyone the more girls more fun
angel1219eyez
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if its a bach party that everyone is putting money up for than i say go for it bc shes paying for herself anyway but if its one person thats paying for it than i would ask them if its ok
2010 Fall Bride
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I agree with everyone, let her bring her friend just so she can still go and feel comfy and you won't have to babysit and can hang and mingle with everyone, as long as it's not costing you...what the heck...
LousBride09
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I agree with everyone, let her bring her friend just so she can still go and feel comfy and you won't have to babysit and can hang and mingle with everyone, as long as it's not costing you...what the heck...
Thanks girls. I have to say I pretty much agree with you all. I mean whats one more person ya know? I mentioned this to my other friends in my bridal party and they thought it was really strange and innapropriate since she wasnt my friend.
