My fh cousin is in my bridal party. He is engaged to a very nice girl. I am not really close to her, I've talked to her a couple times and gone to some of her parties. Should I have her in my bridal party. Is it the right thing to do? Do you think she will feel bad that her fh is walking down the aisle with a girl?
ChrissynRicky
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Personally, if she's not a close friend of yours - don't put her in. My FH's friends all have girlfriends, wives, or fiancee's, and None of them are in my BP.
hmpena
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I don't think she needs to be in your bridal party at all.
shellnroc
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I also agree that she does not have to be in your BP. Don't feel obligated!
Noiva06
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I think that if the only reason you are putting her in is because you don't won't her to feel bad because he's walking down with another girl then no. My FI's brother is married and I am not putting his wife in my BP. My BP is going to be for all my girls who I am close too and who will have a REALLY good time planning out my wedding with me. JMO. I think a BP would be more fun with close pals then just throwing girls in, again JMO.
cindyandkevin
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It's certainly not necessary! I mean, they're engaged!! She should be able to handle seeing him walk down the aisle with another girl, it's not like they have to sleep together. If you already have girls picked out then don't worry about her, she should understand!
conigs25
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IMO- there is no need to have her
OctBride05
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Thanks girls. Just wanted to make sure that I didnt HAVE to have her in it.
