Another 'cat fight' on BHB

Mrs. dleeny Posted: May 26, 2005 03:32 PM

Another 'cat fight' on BHB

what is the DEAL lately??!

did any of you see the hair stylist thread??!

Jen2999 Posted: May 26, 2005 03:33 PM

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ehh I just think everyone needs to CHILL

Sometimes people on here are so quick to jump down peoples throats

simbacat Posted: May 26, 2005 03:33 PM

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No, but I'm going to read it now. What's going on?

hbradio Posted: May 26, 2005 03:35 PM

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I think its pretty much over now.

Mrs. dleeny Posted: May 26, 2005 03:37 PM

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someone posted asking for the 'best' hairstylist. one former bride said something about how she didn't want a LI hair-do for her wedding and people took offense to that… which I don’t blame them. Her definition of LI hair is over-sprayed and over-curled.

Then she said something about how she didn’t like LI flowers either.

ummm, what are a 'LI flowers'

Jen2999 Posted: May 26, 2005 03:42 PM

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Posted by dleeny

someone posted asking for the 'best' hairstylist. one former bride said something about how she didn't want a LI hair-do for her wedding and people took offense to that… which I don’t blame them. Her definition of LI hair is over-sprayed and over-curled.

Then she said something about how she didn’t like LI flowers either.

ummm, what are a 'LI flowers'

I think she was JOKING. OK maybe her comment about 'li' hair was a little tacky.. but I really think it was blown out of proportion, just like alot fo other things on this board..

ITS THE INTERNET people!!!

Mrs. dleeny Posted: May 26, 2005 03:58 PM

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Posted by Jen2999

Posted by dleeny

someone posted asking for the 'best' hairstylist. one former bride said something about how she didn't want a LI hair-do for her wedding and people took offense to that… which I don’t blame them. Her definition of LI hair is over-sprayed and over-curled.

Then she said something about how she didn’t like LI flowers either.

ummm, what are a 'LI flowers'

I think she was JOKING. OK maybe her comment about 'li' hair was a little tacky.. but I really think it was blown out of proportion, just like alot fo other things on this board..

ITS THE INTERNET people!!!

IMO, I don't think she was joking at all.

I've seen her posts before. nuff said

DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted: May 26, 2005 04:34 PM

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I started that thread...

That might have been one of the most a$$enine comments I've ever heard in my life! Glad that discussion is over!

AJsMommy122 Posted: May 26, 2005 04:41 PM

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Posted by dleeny

Posted by Jen2999

Posted by dleeny

someone posted asking for the 'best' hairstylist. one former bride said something about how she didn't want a LI hair-do for her wedding and people took offense to that… which I don’t blame them. Her definition of LI hair is over-sprayed and over-curled.

Then she said something about how she didn’t like LI flowers either.

ummm, what are a 'LI flowers'

I think she was JOKING. OK maybe her comment about 'li' hair was a little tacky.. but I really think it was blown out of proportion, just like alot fo other things on this board..

ITS THE INTERNET people!!!
IMO, I don't think she was joking at all.

I've seen her posts before. nuff said

Yup I agree.

Jen2999 Posted: May 26, 2005 04:42 PM

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I guess so and maybe I am wrong with this one, but in general I think that some people on this board tend to attack the slighest slip of the tongue. I am sometimes afraid to post something for fear I will get attacked.

marc_rai Posted: May 26, 2005 04:44 PM

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Posted by Jen2999

Posted by dleeny

someone posted asking for the 'best' hairstylist. one former bride said something about how she didn't want a LI hair-do for her wedding and people took offense to that… which I don’t blame them. Her definition of LI hair is over-sprayed and over-curled.

Then she said something about how she didn’t like LI flowers either.

ummm, what are a 'LI flowers'

I think she was JOKING. OK maybe her comment about 'li' hair was a little tacky.. but I really think it was blown out of proportion, just like alot fo other things on this board..

ITS THE INTERNET people!!!

Okay, I agree. I just read the thread. She was joking (hence the smiley face) when she said the LI flowers comment. The comment about the hair (over-sprayed, etc) may not have been phrased the best, but hey we're human. Mostly everything we say on this website are based on our personal opinions, however when someone disagrees then people want to tell her to say IMO. I don't get it. I've seen threads where people were down right rude in giving there opinions, but IMO this was not the case here.

Bumsie Posted: May 27, 2005 05:00 PM

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Posted by Jen2999

I guess so and maybe I am wrong with this one, but in general I think that some people on this board tend to attack the slighest slip of the tongue. I am sometimes afraid to post something for fear I will get attacked.

I thought I was the only one

David'sbride Posted: May 28, 2005 07:20 AM

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Yes, since I joined last year the boards have gotten A LOT more dramatic, catty, and judgemental.

People are very quick to judge and are not so diplomatic. Unfortunately, there are also some people who complete thrive on drama on lifamilies as well and are always shouting and rolling their eyes so much they come across as immature teenagers.

As I deal with 100 students with severe senioritis and superiority complexes every day I don't want more drama in something that's supposed to be fun.

We are planning weddings, shouldn't we all be in a pretty good mood? Aren't we all adults?

unicorn1178 Posted: May 28, 2005 10:01 AM

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Hmm.. well since we are talking about LI hair.. what about the girls in Jersey, whitestone and Staten Island OK please forgive.. I couldn't resist!!!

I just think here over on the '05 board we are more than close enough and we know what we can say to each other and what to hold back. Some newbies or non frequent LIweddingsers just put their 2 cents in and don't care about the repercussions. Can't we all just get along!

cjik Posted: May 28, 2005 11:11 AM

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I grew up in Jersey and got teased about Jersey hair for years, even though I never really had Jersey hair (big, overblown, etc.). It never bothered me though, since I don't have Jersey hair (Jersey brides, please take no offense, this is meant in fun).

Yeah, there has been a lot of cattiness on both sides of the LI hair statement.

Mrs. dleeny Posted: May 28, 2005 11:56 AM

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Posted by cjik

I grew up in Jersey and got teased about Jersey hair for years, even though I never really had Jersey hair (big, overblown, etc.). It never bothered me though, since I don't have Jersey hair (Jersey brides, please take no offense, this is meant in fun).

Yeah, there has been a lot of cattiness on both sides of the LI hair statement.

if anyone thinks NJ girls have big hair, they've never been to Texas! OH MY GOD!! a lot of the women that I saw in Dallas literally have a WALL of hair on top of their heads! it's like 80's 'guidette' style (teased and sprayed to death) to the 10th power!

I was in Dallas in Feb. for the 1st time.... I have to say, I was really impressed with Dallas & the burbs. it's beautiful, and CHEAP! too bad it's so hot down there. Otherwise I would move there in a heartbeat.

February05 Posted: May 28, 2005 12:00 PM

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Posted by dleeny
if anyone thinks NJ girls have big hair, they've never been to Texas! OH MY GOD!! a lot of the women that I saw in Dallas literally have a WALL of hair on top of their heads! it's like 80's 'guidette' style (teased and sprayed to death) to the 10th power!

doesnt this negate the original value of your post? i thought that you were Anti 'hair generalizations'... i'm confused

Mrs. dleeny Posted: May 28, 2005 12:04 PM

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Posted by neeniebean86

Posted by dleeny
if anyone thinks NJ girls have big hair, they've never been to Texas! OH MY GOD!! a lot of the women that I saw in Dallas literally have a WALL of hair on top of their heads! it's like 80's 'guidette' style (teased and sprayed to death) to the 10th power!

doesnt this negate the original value of your post? i thought that you were Anti 'hair generalizations'... i'm confused

no, I was actually trying to make the previous poster from NJ know that there are places known for these big hair styles today.

in addition, did you notice I ended my post with something very nice to say about Dallas? everybody relax.

February05 Posted: May 28, 2005 12:16 PM

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Posted by dleeny

Posted by neeniebean86

Posted by dleeny
if anyone thinks NJ girls have big hair, they've never been to Texas! OH MY GOD!! a lot of the women that I saw in Dallas literally have a WALL of hair on top of their heads! it's like 80's 'guidette' style (teased and sprayed to death) to the 10th power!

doesnt this negate the original value of your post? i thought that you were Anti 'hair generalizations'... i'm confused
no, I was actually trying to make the previous poster from NJ know that there are places known for these big hair styles today.

in addition, did you notice I ended my post with something very nice to say about Dallas? everybody relax.

Im relaxed, dont worry All im saying is that youre defeating your purpose when you made a generalization like that.... you dont need to put something else down to make someone else feel better, it just seemed contradictory