another MOH question

does anyone have a list of responsibilities for the maid/matron of honor..i'm not sure what to expect of them and i don't want to turn into a bridezilla..

here is a link to the duties listed on theknot..http://www.theknot.com/ch_article.html?Object=AI980914211009&keyword=ATTENDANTS&channel=&subchannel=

here is another link too

http://www.weddinggazette.com/content/002309.shtml

yet another

http://www.bridesmaid101.com/maid_of_honor_duties.html

You could by them a book about the responsibilities of the wedding party, my mother mentioned something about seeing one.

I'm going to Barnes and Noble today, I am looking for a 'Girlfriends' book to give my BMs when I ask them.

I'll FM you if I find anything.