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Gracie821 Posted:

Another program question

Can you all tell that I'm working on my programs right now I was wondering if I should list deceased parents on the program. My father passed away, If I list my dad do I than have to list grandparents that are deceased under the grandparents, and than will it just look too morbid? I have a little thing at the end saying to think about those who are no longer with us, but I di not list my dads name since there are others who have passed and once again i do not want it to be morbid. We are doing donations to hospice and those will have my dads name on them. What does everyone think? I know that this is a little all over the place but any help would be appreciated. Thanks ladies!
Dani777 Posted:

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I think it depends on how YOU feel... Were you close with your grandparents as well? Not to sound totally horrible but I never even met my grandparents...so I'll only be putting my Dad on mine. He has his own poem and everything. But as for everyone ELSE in our family that has passed away... we have a seperate poem for them...if that makes sense at all... HTH

Gracie821 Posted:

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Posted by Dani777

I think it depends on how YOU feel... Were you close with your grandparents as well? Not to sound totally horrible but I never even met my grandparents...so I'll only be putting my Dad on mine. He has his own poem and everything. But as for everyone ELSE in our family that has passed away... we have a seperate poem for them...if that makes sense at all... HTH



That totally does make sense. Thanks

Will you be putting his name under the 'parents' list?
gina409 Posted:

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i thin its ok to put ur dad and just that...i mean his ur dad and thats not saying u did not love ur grandparents i just think its diffrent

what if u list him and then on the bottom put something in regard to everyone who has passed
LeeAnne Posted:

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i wouldnt put deceased family in there. i would do a memorial candle for them

missjones2007 Posted:

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my granpa and his grandma is decased and we put in memory of on the last page of the program

Gracie821 Posted:

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Posted by LeeAnne

i wouldnt put deceased family in there. i would do a memorial candle for them



I'm doing that too, do oyu think that is enough?
Dani777 Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR


Posted by LeeAnne

i wouldnt put deceased family in there. i would do a memorial candle for them



I'm doing that too, do oyu think that is enough?



If you have a memorial candle I personally think that's enough...
Dani777 Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsR


Posted by Dani777

I think it depends on how YOU feel... Were you close with your grandparents as well? Not to sound totally horrible but I never even met my grandparents...so I'll only be putting my Dad on mine. He has his own poem and everything. But as for everyone ELSE in our family that has passed away... we have a seperate poem for them...if that makes sense at all... HTH



That totally does make sense. Thanks

Will you be putting his name under the 'parents' list?



I think so...ha...FH is doing that HAHA
Gracie821 Posted:

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Thanks for all of your help ladies, all of this is making me sad now I think I'm going to take a break
sumerbride09 Posted:

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Just becuase he is no longer with us, he is still your dad, if your plan is to put your parents in the program thats what i would do. you dont need to list grandparents there though Imo.

im sorry you have to make decisions like this

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