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I've been a stepdaughter, here is some HUGE advise, one please don't play favorites when you have kids. Things like buying your kids beautiful stuff and going to a flea market to buy the one gift for your step kid, its just not right. Also try to make sure your FH get some time alone with his child. I remember not being able to see my dad for months because his gf/ pratically my stepmom wanted him alone with him, like she had all week. Also try to become close them. Try to be their friend, your getting package by marrying this guy, you have the kid too. The kid is apart of your family now, make sure they feel that way. That also goes for your parents and sibblings, let them treat his child as if it were your own. That way less stress for the kid, and the child feels more accepted. Also try to take an interest in the kids interest. Don't be affarid. That child is more likely 100 times more affarid than you. Understand this and make sure his fears are laid to rest. Its hard when theirs a new person in your parents life, you have to take time out and try to be understanding.
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I need advice from any stepmoms out there - especially those who don't have kids of their own yet...
Please help!!!!![]()
