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Another RSVP vent

jeanla4c Posted:

Another RSVP vent

Ok we have two days to go before our date, missing 33 RSVPs....

I sent out a reminder email yesterday mainly just because today is the last day to make hotel arrangements at our block and about 75 % of our wedding is from out of town (including us . I got one response to the email.

The calling begins on Saturday.

I Don't understand why people can't respond...I know it's been said by many before but what is wrong with people?

How are all my early July brides doing with this?

UGH! Ok, I did my wedding complaing for the day, off to do Yoga Booty Ballet, always calms me down.
acre730 Posted:

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I am a late July Bride, with a very early 'RSVP' date and am having the same issues as you. It is so frustrating. With a few days left we are still missing a HUGE chunk... some that I know are coming, but others that are still up in the air...I always thought running to the mail when the responses came back would be so exciting but coming home and seeing none several days in a row was just sad As much as everyone had always said that people dont send back the cards, I just wasn't expecting it like this.
Pmpkn087 Posted:

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OMG. Now I am really freaking out about this. When I made my RSVP date, I said 'Oh, Nov. 1st is 26 days away from the wedding, that will be fine.' so, I ordered the invites.

Then, this past weekend I went to schedule something and saw that I have to have the final count by November 4th!!! That's only 3 days after the RSVPs are due!!!! I am really freaking about this now.
Donna&Joe708 Posted:

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I feel your pain. Today is our RSVP date and we are still missing 18. Yesterday, we received none! This whole process has been frustrating. I want to see what we get in the mail today and then we are going to give my mother and FMIL a list of people to call.

AnniesSS Posted:

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Posted by Pmpkn087

OMG. Now I am really freaking out about this. When I made my RSVP date, I said 'Oh, Nov. 1st is 26 days away from the wedding, that will be fine.' so, I ordered the invites.

Then, this past weekend I went to schedule something and saw that I have to have the final count by November 4th!!! That's only 3 days after the RSVPs are due!!!! I am really freaking about this now.



DON'T DO IT!!! I let my FMIL talkk me into having my RSVP date 3 weeks before the wedding and I was freaking out!!!

I just got a response yesterday and one the day before. People su(k
italia6973 Posted:

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I'm sorry you are all going through this. I am definitely not looking forward to this. Why can't people just send them back!
ckgmwedding Posted:

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I am so fed up I decided I don't care. We have covered our minimum and if you don't reply, no matter how- email, verbally, my response card- I am assuming you are not coming. If anyone would like to call these missing folks(they aren't my friends or relatives), well that's up to them
jeanla4c Posted:

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Posted by ckgmwedding

I am so fed up I decided I don't care. We have covered our minimum and if you don't reply, no matter how- email, verbally, my response card- I am assuming you are not coming. If anyone would like to call these missing folks(they aren't my friends or relatives), well that's up to them



Problem is we haven't covered our minimum, which shocks us!!!! I can't believe people...sorry you are going through this too.

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