Anxiety Attack....

My wedding is a little over 6 months away and I am really freaking out with anxiety. I was up until 3 this morning thinking about centerpieces. It literally consumed my mind and I could not sleep.

With my shower dress ordered and being on the verge of ordering my Centerpiece vases...i just feel like it is REAL. Do I sound crazy? My STD's were mailed weeks ago and my dress has arrived but none of that freaked me out. I am literally at my desk feeling on edge.

Am I alone?.... I need a drink.

I dont think your alone! I have been consumed with in guest list lately. And I suffer from anxiety as well VERY BAD. Like to the point, Im so consumed with it I have to take a xanax to calm down! I go to bed late and wake up early and just think about it. I was having an issue with in laws inviting too many people and I was upset so I was CONSUMED with how many people may show up at my wedding and UGH such a long story.

Anyways your not alone. Its not just a party, its your wedding and what we are all doing that day is a life changing event so OF COURSE its totally normal to feel anxiety about it. But remember why your getting married. Its not because of a centerpiece! hehe =) Its because you love him and he loves you and your taking a major step together and making a life together. =)

What is your concern with the centerpiece? If you talk about it, it wont seem so bad. AND more so, you wont be so locked in your head about it! =))

FM me if you want! I can totally relate I OBSESS about every detail... lol I think we all do!

Don't feel bad, pretty much from the second I wake up til the minute I go to sleep I have Wedding Brain.

It drives me crazy!!

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Posted by StaciP

I dont think your alone! I have been consumed with in guest list lately. And I suffer from anxiety as well VERY BAD. Like to the point, Im so consumed with it I have to take a xanax to calm down! I go to bed late and wake up early and just think about it. I was having an issue with in laws inviting too many people and I was upset so I was CONSUMED with how many people may show up at my wedding and UGH such a long story.

Anyways your not alone. Its not just a party, its your wedding and what we are all doing that day is a life changing event so OF COURSE its totally normal to feel anxiety about it. But remember why your getting married. Its not because of a centerpiece! hehe =) Its because you love him and he loves you and your taking a major step together and making a life together. =)

What is your concern with the centerpiece? If you talk about it, it wont seem so bad. AND more so, you wont be so locked in your head about it! =))

FM me if you want! I can totally relate I OBSESS about every detail... lol I think we all do!

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it is not even that I am worried, I just have a MILLION ideas running through my head! I wanted to call my mom at 2:30 to talk about floating candles! lmfao *** is wrong with me?! As soon as I woke up I grabbed my cell and called her! I was almost Late to work gabbing with her .... IDK My mind is just racing. There is so much to do/ worry about. I am like the List/ excel/ google queen. I need order in my life to stay sane you know? I think I need to just take a chill pill....Literally!

Thanks for your post I feel better!

you are not alone. dont worry and dont stress it will get better!

I am about 4 months away and just started to have them as well - I'm thinking I should take up yoga or meditation of some sort because I'm panicking over things that I don't need to worry about. And my first instinct is to eat in those situations so that's bumming me out because I've lost a lot of weight for the wedding and am panicked I'm going to sabotage things....glad to hear I'm not the only one. I guess talking about it with fellow LIW girls should help us

you are SO not alone! it occupies my every moment...even worked it's way into my dreams!! i'm gonna join you for that drink!

I get this NOW that I am 2 months away! You have time- just take it one day at a time!

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Posted by jnc12306

Yea i just did my hoetl block so i didnt even send the stds yet!!!! how late am i?

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You're my almost Date Twin! no worries ...Sept Brides Rock you are on track ...I personally just have an insane amount of OOT guests so I sent my STD's out super early.

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Posted by 9509Bride

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Posted by StaciP

I dont think your alone! I have been consumed with in guest list lately. And I suffer from anxiety as well VERY BAD. Like to the point, Im so consumed with it I have to take a xanax to calm down! I go to bed late and wake up early and just think about it. I was having an issue with in laws inviting too many people and I was upset so I was CONSUMED with how many people may show up at my wedding and UGH such a long story.

Anyways your not alone. Its not just a party, its your wedding and what we are all doing that day is a life changing event so OF COURSE its totally normal to feel anxiety about it. But remember why your getting married. Its not because of a centerpiece! hehe =) Its because you love him and he loves you and your taking a major step together and making a life together. =)

What is your concern with the centerpiece? If you talk about it, it wont seem so bad. AND more so, you wont be so locked in your head about it! =))

FM me if you want! I can totally relate I OBSESS about every detail... lol I think we all do!

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it is not even that I am worried, I just have a MILLION ideas running through my head! I wanted to call my mom at 2:30 to talk about floating candles! lmfao *** is wrong with me?! As soon as I woke up I grabbed my cell and called her! I was almost Late to work gabbing with her .... IDK My mind is just racing. There is so much to do/ worry about. I am like the List/ excel/ google queen. I need order in my life to stay sane you know? I think I need to just take a chill pill....Literally!

Thanks for your post I feel better!

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OMG I am the SAME WAY! I am the official LIST girl amongst my friends! LOL they make fun of me all the time! Trust me I was/am the same way with the wedding stuff. At first I was so obsessed with it that I literally would come home from work and be on the computer researching ALL NIGHT EVERY SINGLE NIGHT! I didnt go out, I didnt do anything work and on the computer! I didnt even want to take a shower because it would take away from me being on the computer researching! LOL
(but I showered! LOL dont worry!)
I made a list of everything I wanted. I saved every DIY project in a word file JUST IN CASE I decided I wanted to do it. I am done with most stuff that people around me are like WOW your WAY ahead of schedule and Im like NO IM NOT! What if I forget something?! Id rather do everything right away I cant procrastinate!
FH wanted to kill me! LOL I will think of something and in that instant I am calling my mom or my friends and they want to kill me.

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Posted by StaciP

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Posted by 9509Bride

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Posted by StaciP

I dont think your alone! I have been consumed with in guest list lately. And I suffer from anxiety as well VERY BAD. Like to the point, Im so consumed with it I have to take a xanax to calm down! I go to bed late and wake up early and just think about it. I was having an issue with in laws inviting too many people and I was upset so I was CONSUMED with how many people may show up at my wedding and UGH such a long story.

Anyways your not alone. Its not just a party, its your wedding and what we are all doing that day is a life changing event so OF COURSE its totally normal to feel anxiety about it. But remember why your getting married. Its not because of a centerpiece! hehe =) Its because you love him and he loves you and your taking a major step together and making a life together. =)


LIST QUEENS UNITE

What is your concern with the centerpiece? If you talk about it, it wont seem so bad. AND more so, you wont be so locked in your head about it! =))

FM me if you want! I can totally relate I OBSESS about every detail... lol I think we all do!

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it is not even that I am worried, I just have a MILLION ideas running through my head! I wanted to call my mom at 2:30 to talk about floating candles! lmfao *** is wrong with me?! As soon as I woke up I grabbed my cell and called her! I was almost Late to work gabbing with her .... IDK My mind is just racing. There is so much to do/ worry about. I am like the List/ excel/ google queen. I need order in my life to stay sane you know? I think I need to just take a chill pill....Literally!

Thanks for your post I feel better!

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OMG I am the SAME WAY! I am the official LIST girl amongst my friends! LOL they make fun of me all the time! Trust me I was/am the same way with the wedding stuff. At first I was so obsessed with it that I literally would come home from work and be on the computer researching ALL NIGHT EVERY SINGLE NIGHT! I didnt go out, I didnt do anything work and on the computer! I didnt even want to take a shower because it would take away from me being on the computer researching! LOL
(but I showered! LOL dont worry!)
I made a list of everything I wanted. I saved every DIY project in a word file JUST IN CASE I decided I wanted to do it. I am done with most stuff that people around me are like WOW your WAY ahead of schedule and Im like NO IM NOT! What if I forget something?! Id rather do everything right away I cant procrastinate!
FH wanted to kill me! LOL I will think of something and in that instant I am calling my mom or my friends and they want to kill me.

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LIST QUEENS UNITE

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Posted by NY2009

Wanna talk anxiety???? My wedding is in 23 days and I have been walking around feeling like I wanna throw up!!!!!!

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23 days I would prob be in curled up in a fetal position somewhere!

It is bittersweet, the excitement of your big day vs. the nerves of it all !

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Posted by 9509Bride

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Posted by NY2009

Wanna talk anxiety???? My wedding is in 23 days and I have been walking around feeling like I wanna throw up!!!!!!

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23 days I would prob be in curled up in a fetal position somewhere!

It is bittersweet, the excitement of your big day vs. the nerves of it all !

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