Any future brides out there not live with your FI before the wedding?
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Do you think this is bad?
DrmnBlnd
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we are not living together yet, but only because he lives in MA, and his mother is really sick, so I want them to have as much time together as possible.
2003fallwedding
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We didn't live together before we got married. Right now we are having a problem getting the tenant out of our house so even now we are not really living together yet... She will be out Jan 5.
Marcela1654
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We are not living together either.
sweetnessconfused
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I am really old fashion so we are being traditional and not living together until after we are married.
nylisa
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We both still live with our parents and will only be living together once we are married.
jmarshall
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We are not going to live together before the wedding. I still live with my parents and he is actually moving back with his parents to save money.
sun86moon
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We are both on old fashioned side and not living together, but FH is getting really upset with packing every weekend and Belt Parkway traffic.
JuneBride44
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We aren't living together - the day we get back from the honeymoon, he is going to move into my apartment with me. That means that I will have to give up alot of closet space!!! I can't wait though!
meganNbobby
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we are not living together either, i thought we were the only ones, it's great to hear we're not... we've been together almost 8 years, i really just want to be with him, so i can't wait, it's sooo hard to go home without him or go to sleep without him next to me, however he does sleepover usually on sat nights... but we plan to buy a sondo or co-op about 2 months before we get married hopefully we wont have to rent...
091804bride
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We are not living together before the wedding either. Both b/c we wanted something new and to save money for a house. I miss him when we leave each others houses after hanging out. But it does make me very happy to think that in 9 months we get to be living together!Yey!!
mich
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we won't be living together either- our choice.
kaangel217
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I have been with my FH for over 6 years and known him for 11 years. I lived out on my own for a while and then moved back home. In all this time FH and I never lived together. At first I really wanted to, but coming from a strict Irish catholic background it would have caused major problems. Then FH really wanted us to live together but I refused until I was engaged. Then we got engaged and he said that we waited this long why not wait until we get married to live together. So thats what we've been doing.... waiting ....waiting ....waiting.!!
only 144 days.
valentinesdaywedding
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We have chosen to live with our parents since we got out of school to save up money so we could buy a home when we finallyl did get married. I am so excited to live with him. We basically lived with each other in college.
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We are not living together before the marriage either. We are in the process of purchasing a co-op and one of us will move in the month before. We both want something NEW when we get married...gives you something extra to look forward to
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I am not living with my FH before the wedding. I do not think it is bad at all--actually both our families would not have it any other way!
PinkRose
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We're not living together either. Pretty soon.....
nan&dave
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We don't live together. We want all the excitement for after the wedding.
curly2003
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From a past bride-
We didn't live togther either. We never even spent the night at each other's homes and we were togther 7 years before the wedidng. We bought a home 3 months prior to the wedidng and he lived there. I 'moved' in the day of the wedding. Our honeymoon night was spent in our new home and I couldn't have asked for more. 2 months later and it is still the most amazing experience ever. I would have NEVER traded in my decison. best thing I ever did. it was a mutual decison and one we are both very proud of!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
