Any girls leaving the HM up to the FH?W/POLL

Kim51103 Posted: Aug 08, 2005 11:55 AM

Any girls leaving the HM up to the FH?W/POLL

Any 06 ers leaving the honeymoon plans up to the FH? I was reading it....and it must be a big thing for the groom to do!!!!!

We are planning it together...he said ' i've been there before, id plan it...but i want you to have a say...and stay where you want to!'

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Aug 08, 2005 11:58 AM

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I have pretty much researched the whole thing. I just go over it with my FH. I am good at planning trips, so he leaves it up to me.

Its up to him to pay for it though, I tell him to start saving.

CaMacho Posted: Aug 08, 2005 12:00 PM

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I love researching our HM plans... it's been one of the most fun parts of wedding planning! I usually do the research and look up resorts, islands, etc... then show him!

kellwolfe Posted: Aug 08, 2005 12:12 PM

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We are doing it together - I want him to be a part of it but he isn't big on the small details and that would make me nervous

cindyandkevin Posted: Aug 08, 2005 12:25 PM

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I've been so busy with wedding planning I want him to take care of the HM. We're good about keeping the other person involved in what's going on tho!

kissy27 Posted: Aug 08, 2005 12:33 PM

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FH & I are planning it together...We discussed possible locations & then I did some research...Once I had everything, we made our decision together...

sarahbelle Posted: Aug 08, 2005 12:36 PM

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It's mostly my job to plan the HM, but I have asked him for imput along the way. He will definitely come with me to the travel agent to make sure that I don't spend too much

leese Posted: Aug 08, 2005 12:46 PM

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we are coordinating a bit but i really would like for him to make the final decisions on things...

CJStein Posted: Aug 08, 2005 01:04 PM

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He did most of the research, but we went to the travel agent together to get price quites, we hope to book this week.

Goldi1021 Posted: Aug 08, 2005 01:09 PM

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FH is a little slow on the uptake in that department. He wants to plan it and due to the generosity of my mother, we have a free flight from her American Airlines Sky Miles program. Great right? NO! He hasn't booked anything. He gave more thought to our Mexican vacation that we booked 9 months before we took it. The wedding is 6 months away and we have no honeymoon. No honeymoon? No wedding night. Enough said.

july06bride Posted: Aug 08, 2005 01:19 PM

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we narrowed down the places together , but he will ultimately choose , i am leaving the majority up to him, but I will help at times if needed, i know he can do it.

Noiva06 Posted: Aug 08, 2005 01:23 PM

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I think this is gonna be a team effort.... Ultimately, I will leave it to him to decide (he doesn't know this yet....hehehe), but we are usually always on the same page, so I know I will be very comfortable with his decision!

Suzannebride Posted: Aug 08, 2005 01:49 PM

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I think we will have to work together for ours. I am better at finding deals and he has a very different idea of what hotels are acceptable/not scary!