ANYONE have people asking them HOW MUCH thy are paying for things- CONSTANTLY !!????
I cannot stand it ~~~
do THEY WANT TO PAY for the whole wedding or what?
vmystique33
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Yep all the time !! well how much is that going to cost? and then I get isnt that expensive? How are you going to do that?
TnOiOnL
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oooo god, this past weekend I literally said to my FH's UNCLE-
'It cost us around... NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS'
FH said- 'Yea that was what it was around'
Gotta just brush it off otherwise youll go nuts!
D's Girl
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Since the day I got engaged!
gpurple
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PERFECT!!!
THAT is what I Am telling people !!!!
rkl1130
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I get that all the time!
If they are so interested, I feel like asking if they are picking up the tab. My uncle unfortunately is sick right now too and my aunt expects my parents to help them out a lot financially, so my parents had to put their foot down and listed how much things were going to cost to get them off their backs a little.
leshellem
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People can be so rude, I wish someone would ask what I'm paying for what.
onelove1
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CONSTANTLY
I just tell them. . 'Yea I don't really remember, I have all the papaerwork at home'. I get it from alot of girls who aren't enagaged yet, that are just freakin nosey and love to gossip
gpurple
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THANKS girls !!
It helps to VENT !!!
some days..I feel like people are trying to figure out what I paid- as to what kind of 'gift' they are giving.
yes- people are rude. I guess I would never ask that !!!
Elise&Matt
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ohhhh yeah all the time
Summer07Bride
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I guess I am lucky, so far no one has asked me other than another girl I know getting married.
MeNBobs
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I read in Ann Landers that when someone asks a nosey question you should say 'Why do you want to know that' and since people won't answer because I'm a nosey they will get embarrassed and just say forget it. I used it all the time and it worked so well. The wisdom of Ann
gpurple
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LOVE IT !!!
milana
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Posted by MeNBobs
I read in Ann Landers that when someone asks a nosey question you should say 'Why do you want to know that' and since people won't answer because I'm a nosey they will get embarrassed and just say forget it. I used it all the time and it worked so well. The wisdom of Ann
i love it! Im going to say the same thing.
Dee606
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Yes, It happens all the time! I just respond by saying that I don't remember b/c FH is paying that portion of the wedding.
PattyK
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Yes...my sister....if she keeps asking me I am going to tell her that she can only question the cost of something if she is opening her wallet to pay for it.
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Posted by MeNBobs
I read in Ann Landers that when someone asks a nosey question you should say 'Why do you want to know that' and since people won't answer because I'm a nosey they will get embarrassed and just say forget it. I used it all the time and it worked so well. The wisdom of Ann
That's a great response---going to keep that one in mind next time someone decides to be nosy!!!
Erica48
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yes!!! all the time - it is so annoying!!!!
leecr7
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Yes. Mostly one particular former bride to say how they did much better...grrr
Aug07OFCbride
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yep, FHs best man loves to ask. i just try to give him the benefit of the doubt, he isnt asking for any sketchy reason. i think they just like to BS.