I don't know... for some reason I just feel like I have ABSOLUTELY nothing to post on here.. like every question I have either I've asked a thousand times or it just gets looked at and not replied to... I know I'm guilty of doing that sometimes.. but I feel like its ME. I feel like I have nothing to contribute to liweddings... no more good/unique ideas and I'm having a major wedding block... I just dont want to plan anything anymore! meanwhile I only have 9 months and 5 days to plan this thing! I've been feeling this way since I got my 1000... like my 1001 was just bleh. IDK, maybe I'm getting my period or something and I'm just bringing myself down... maybe its the stress of TRYING to plan this wedding with NO MONEY (seriously like we have NO MONEY at all and we only have like 4 vendors) just the fact that I'm burned out with planning... IDK.
I just had to get this out.. thanks for reading girls.
brittndave
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nope sometimes i feel like this too! and sometimes if i'm really excited to post something and no one's on to respond i get really sad
jennybee
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I'm with you! And I feel like an old lady on here And I'm not having a L.I. wedding. And the creative juices have definitely dried up!! OK. Better now
Chelechel1
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We just decided last night to push our date due to the lack of money.
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nope sometimes i feel like this too! and sometimes if i'm really excited to post something and no one's on to respond i get really sad
I do that. I just bump it then. There's going to be a point closer to my wedding when i'm just going to respond to my own posts lol.
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nope sometimes i feel like this too! and sometimes if i'm really excited to post something and no one's on to respond i get really sad
I do that. I just bump it then. There's going to be a point closer to my wedding when i'm just going to respond to my own posts lol.
I'm known for obnoxiously bumping my posts up every now and then. Not that bumping them is obnoxious, but the way I do it usually is
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def feel the same way..I log on less and less now because of other commitments, but basically am tempted to move up my wedding day from October to either April or May. I am just ready to get this thing over with...
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nope sometimes i feel like this too! and sometimes if i'm really excited to post something and no one's on to respond i get really sad
I do that. I just bump it then. There's going to be a point closer to my wedding when i'm just going to respond to my own posts lol.
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I've been that way for months, until New Year's Day when I ordered my dress. Just paying the deposit brought me back to wedding reality and now my BMs are back into it too. As the date gets closer, it'll come back. It just seemed for a while like there was nothing to do but now that we're almost 7 months away, I'm realizing the little things are going to kill me so I'm trying to get the bigger things out of the way. Don't worry about the number of vendors you have right now. Some brides on here are still signing contracts 3 months before the wedding and they turn out fine.
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I feel the EXACT same way!!!!
I took a break from the wedding bs because of burn out. I was lurking on here daily but I just didn't want to post/respond.
LIW depression
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Posted by FutureMrsLMS
def feel the same way..I log on less and less now because of other commitments, but basically am tempted to move up my wedding day from October to either April or May. I am just ready to get this thing over with...
i changed mine from oct to may. i couldn't deal with waiting another 6 mo.
and as for wedding planning depression i totally have it. still haven't booked limos and a TON of other stuff. every time i think about wedding stuff i get hives
Im_My_Own_Princess
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THANKS GIRLS i'm glad to know i'm not the only one... although it su cks we're all going through it...
i still can't believe its OUR YEAR
TessMike621
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wait till your wedding comes closer...you'll have a lot to talk about!!!!!!
JAAMS
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nope sometimes i feel like this too! and sometimes if i'm really excited to post something and no one's on to respond i get really sad
I do that. I just bump it then. There's going to be a point closer to my wedding when i'm just going to respond to my own posts lol.
dittooooo
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THANKS GIRLS i'm glad to know i'm not the only one... although it su cks we're all going through it...
i still can't believe its OUR YEAR
i think the reality is hitting everyone HARD. but if you have $$ issues, thats definitely going to put pressure on you. u still have time, maybe u should take a break from planning.
Golden
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You have FM
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THANKS GIRLS i'm glad to know i'm not the only one... although it su cks we're all going through it...
i still can't believe its OUR YEAR
i think the reality is hitting everyone HARD. but if you have $$ issues, thats definitely going to put pressure on you. u still have time, maybe u should take a break from planning.
we've been talking a break... a very very long break.. its more like we both need a fire lit under us so we'll actually get back into planning.
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My fire just lit itself 3 weeks ago, when I realized I was getting married in 4 months and that it took 1 month to get my invitations. I had no appointments for dress alterations, no hair trial set, no makeup trial, no limos. I had all this energy in August, and it had died. Now, I'm freaking out from time pressure!. All of the sudden, I'm unsure of everything and need people to talk to. It's funny how your friends who are not engaged yet don't really give a S*** about your planning...which is why I thank my lucky stars for this board. If something is really important and you need advice, post it again. Someone will answer you. There are so many of us. =)
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It's funny how your friends who are not engaged yet don't really give a S*** about your planning...which is why I thank my lucky stars for this board. If something is really important and you need advice, post it again. Someone will answer you. There are so many of us. =)
i feel exactly the same way!!! my sister especially does NOT get why i'm so into my wedding planning....and the funny thing is i'm really NOT. like i still don't have transportation, invitations, favors, makeup, flowers, and probably a ton more that i'm not thinking about. so everyone's like wow you're obsessed and i'm like...ok, i just don't even know what to say to that.
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totallllllllly I am sitting here...lurking but signed on for this post..sometimes I just want it to be over with. done. that's it. I mean how many freakn times am I going to need to get off my butt and do something. eh..reality is a bish
