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Any smokin' brides?

stephensvalentine Posted:

Any smokin' brides?

I was a long time smoker that gave up cigarettes upon engagement at the request of FH. I was good for many months and have slowly slipped back into old habits. I'm not back to smoking full time, but cheat more than I should. FH understands and accepts it (reluctanly).

Any one else a slave to the nicotine queen?
October Bliss Posted:

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I am unfortunately a slave to nicotine. My DJ told me how my dress will get messed up on my wedding day if I'm outside smoking. I told him it's his job to keep me on the dance floor!

I should also add my FH doesn't like it, but keeps his mouth shut for the most part. In return I limit the amount of smoking I do around him. Usually when I'm at his place I only go outside to smoke once in a 5 hour period.
OctBride05 Posted:

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I am a smoker. fh doesn't like me smoking, but i told him it has to be my desicion to quit. I am going to stop gradually after the wedding.

steflily Posted:

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Yeah. FH and I both smoke. Lately I've been smoking a lot more than I used too and I know it will only get worse. We both are committed to quiting after the honeymoon. Our house will be non-smoking so hopefully we can both do it.

Kerrycec Posted:

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we both smoke. After the honeymoon I'm going to quit.

stephanief Posted:

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I quit 9 weeks ago but yes, I do sneak sometimes (on the weekend)\
wendyz06 Posted:

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I sneak on the weekends and sometime one after lunch. He kind of knows
jax2718 Posted:

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we both smoke but have set a wedding resoultion that we attempt to quit smoking so i hope we can do it!!!!! wish us luck and good luck to anyone who has quit or is going to quit.

BEANS Posted:

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I am also a smoker. FH used to but quit 5 years ago, now he is the all knowing preacher about it. I don't smoke in our apartment & try not to smoke around him too much cause I don't want to hear his mouth. I plan on quitting right after the wedding. If I quit now, I know something will piss me off & I will go right back!

esb980 Posted:

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Posted by stephanief

I quit 9 weeks ago but yes, I do sneak sometimes (on the weekend)\




9 weeks already?!?! That went fast (for me!!)
SOON TO BE MRS. B Posted:

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we both smoke too...actually my entire family smokes....want to quit after the wedding, thought abut hypnosis, supposed to be good

MissingTheBGene Posted:

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I have been smoke free for 1 year and 5 months to the day.

I took SmokEnders classes after trying everything, the patch, the gum, you name it. I was skeptical of the meetings, but I quit on the day they said I would and I have not had one little puff since.

I'm not going to lie, I get the urge every now and then, and I still like the smell of a fresh cigarette (but not stale, ick!) but I've come so far, I would be so upset if I fell back into it.

If you want more info about SmokEnders, please feel free to FM me. Good luck!
leighdvm Posted:

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Posted by MissingTheBGene


I'm not going to lie, I get the urge every now and then, and I still like the smell of a fresh cigarette (but not stale, ick!) but I've come so far, I would be so upset if I fell back into it.





I agree 100% -- I still get those urges, too. On November 2nd, it was 6 months for me!!!
JXNOscar Posted:

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I have been smoke free for 7 months
I am glad i have this board bc I still do miss it
though I love the way I smell now

Quit ladies, your skin looks like a million times better when you do and the whites of your eyes and your teeth
danamike Posted:

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I've been smoke free for about 1 month and it's been pretty hard, still get urges quite a bit but I'm sticking to it. My FH is trying so hard to quit but he's having a hard time, he has to quit as he needs neck surgery and has to be smoke free.
It's a constant struggle.
JXNOscar Posted:

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Posted by danamike

I've been smoke free for about 1 month and it's been pretty hard, still get urges quite a bit but I'm sticking to it. My FH is trying so hard to quit but he's having a hard time, he has to quit as he needs neck surgery and has to be smoke free.
It's a constant struggle.




I do not want to be one of those non snmoker evaqngelists (I hated them when I smoked)
But you CAN DO THIS
KEEP IT UP GIRL
you, your bed, your skin your house your lungs are rooting for you
Tracy&Brian Posted:

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I promised FH he would marry a non-smoker. I have tried a lot of times to quit. I would say I am a professional quitter. FH hates it and has never smoked (except when he is drunk and mocking me). He does everything he can to make me feel bad about smoking so I want to quit. I feel so bad cause he hates it so much, but its so hard to do and I am not ready yet. Its so annoying...
thefirstlady Posted:

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Yes! I want to quit eventually, definitly before kids of course. FH quit about 3 yrs ago, but he's pretty tolerant of me. I don't smoke in the house, and never would.

gNi1125 Posted:

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We both smoke but we plan on quiting before the wedding.

chloeme2 Posted:

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I smoke. My FI hates it. Since we moved in together, I don't smoke in the house anymore. I plan to quit because I know that I have to for my own good but not until after the wedding. I quit once before for 1yr 9mos & gained 15 lbs!!!!!

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