I dont have one, but I'm not a big fan of kids anyway, so this affects me in no way
hyphenbride
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We're not having any. Our wedding will be enough of a circus without kids there!
MikeandJess
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I don't have one either, what really bothers me is that FH has nephews that are the perfect age to do it but his sister doesn't want them in the wedding party because she doesn't want to have to watch them, which I completely understand but it still makes me sad
mathteach
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don't have one, don't want one, don't need one.
beachbum05
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dont have one - but ok with it
Smiley7092
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I don't have a ring bearer or any flower girls so don't feel bad!
JimmysPants
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Im not sure If im going to have a RB just yet. My nephew is and will be too young and my best friends son may be but I havent gotten a straight answer from her yet.
meli722
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im not having one, its your wedding, you can what you want. it isnt set in stone that you have to have a ring bearer
MIssBridalBliss
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don't have one, don't need one, don't want one. No flower girls either... :)
Mici n KC
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It's fine not to have a ring bearer. I've been to plenty of weddings that didn't have one.
TheFutureMrsM
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i dont have a ring bearer, but i didnt want one I think you will be fine without one, i defin agree 1 years old is too young
FutureMrsCarrieri
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No RB -- it doesn't bother me at all. Honestly, as the total continues to climb, I'm happy I don't have one. One less gift to buy, one less person to coordinate outfits with, one less expense (no pillow).
MeaganAndJoeC
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My sister didn't have one and it her wedding was great . I know my RB isnt even holding my rings.. Don't let it bother you
SoontobeMrsH
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We're not having one, but we have 4 flower girls. I'm ok with it
tlp123
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We have 2 ring bearers, but no flower girls. Its nice to have, but you really don't need either.
minibride08
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We are having 2 flower girls & a ring 'princess'. So, 3 girls- the oldest (who's only 4) will carry the rings....
lexi1890
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We don't have one because we don't want kids to be a part of the wedding. May sound harsh but the youngest person invited is 15. I didn't want to deal with kids at the wedding and the only kids that I could have used would be on of my BM's kids....but if they were in the wedding she couldnt enjoy herself.
Don't feel bad for not having one. There is nothing that say s you need one.
drpepper318
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I didn't have a ring bearer or a flower girl. I was totally fine with it! It'll be fine not to have one, don't worry.
