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Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

jenandivan Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

Would catering halls be receptive to something like that? I'm afraid to hear that they won't because it won't be cost effective for them.

The thing is... I hate being the center of attention, and the thought of a traditional wedding reception scares the poop out of me. I'd much rather have a cocktail reception immediately following the ceremony, without all the bells and whistles, no announcing bride/groom, no special attention. Just friends and family mingling and enjoying food and drink with some background music.

Do I have my head up my butt? Or is this completely doable?
katielynn Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

I sent you FM before. A lot of venues offer this as an option. Check your FM for the one I sent you :)

jenandivan Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

Thanks, Katie. I just left a message for Steve. Hopefully they don't laugh at me.

jenandivan Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

What are you paying for this type of reception? If you don't mind me asking.

katielynn Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

He most definitely won't laugh at you. They are amazing there. I cannot wait to have our wedding there! 664 days! LOL

cj21512 Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

I believe Flowerfield does cocktail receptions. It's worth a shot to ask! Good luck!

jenandivan Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

Katie: Steve just called me back. He had no problem with it. Told me Sunday afternoon would be $80pp inclusive of admin fees and tax. Would cut it down to $75pp if we did 4 hours as opposed to 5.

Gonna stick my head between my legs now. Getting dizzy again. Why am I such a freaking wimp?!?!?
Kchow1 Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

we are getting a little over $100 a person on a friday night..ceremony, cocktail and reception and we also extrended the reception an extra hour..for the extra $20 go for the full party... im sure you can work your way around with everyone having fun and you not being the center of attention... maybe you can do buffet stlye where not everyone is sitting down..

mattandjess2013 Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

check Thatched Cottage. I think they may offer this.

pjt212301 Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

We had our cocktail and dessert reception at the thatched cottage. It was amazing and i would highly recommend.

MissToMrs Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

I am getting married at Flowerfield and doing a cocktail style reception! :) their cocktail hour actually has more food than dinner!!! :) it was $5 less pp

anjelagain Posted:

Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?

Yes!!! They may not cut down the price but you can use the extra space in money of the food for better drinks and cocktails. Thatched cottage can do a 3.5-4 hr cocktail party or around 65 pp. it will be between two weddings though prob....

anjelagain Posted:

Re: Anyone doing a cocktail party only reception?


Posted by pjt212301

We had our cocktail and dessert reception at the thatched cottage. It was amazing and i would highly recommend.



What time was your party? Did you have stations?

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