Anyone else..

I cant really relate but i think what Pacie said makes a lot of sense. Do one thing at a time - thinking of your colors, the honeymoon and the after party probably has your mind going 100000 mph.

Take a step back - figure out one thing and then move to the next. you have some time and there isnt a rush. like you said you have your main veodors picked and thats huge!!!!!

you will figure it all out - just take it on thing at a time

I think what the other girls said is right on the money. Take one thing at a time. You still have a lot of time to decide on the little things.

For me things just kind of developed as they came. I never really decided on 'colors', they more just happend.

For example, for me the color of my bridesmaid dress & FH's suit came from the sash on my dress. The other color came from my dress itself. So now I had two colors I liked; champagne & ivory. The third color came because FH is going to wear a kacki colored suit and liked the way it looked with a light blue tie. So there you have it.

I wasn't looking for it. Maybe just think about what colors you like or just keep an open mind to what jumps out at you. The rest will develope from there.

Sorry you are so stressed sweets!

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Posted by Melfrank

Having a REALLY hard time with decisions... I can't seem to make up my mind about anything.. I'm usually stuck between 2 equally awesome choices.. FH is so laid back and keeps telling me that he wants whatever is going to make me happy (thanks jerk, I want you to pick) but I guess I'd probably second guess his decisions anyway!

I can't decide on my color scheme, I can't decide our honeymoon, I can't decide the after party, I can't decide the hotel block.. and I literally want to scream... Thank G-d I booked all my major vendors while I was still sane!! Does my indecisiveness mean something? or does everyone feel to some extent that they are finding it impossible to make and stick with decisions...................

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I'm in your camp except I haven't even booked major vendors! Don't stress, everything will fall into place (that's what I keep telling myself at least!)

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Posted by Melfrank

Having a REALLY hard time with decisions... I can't seem to make up my mind about anything.. I'm usually stuck between 2 equally awesome choices.. FH is so laid back and keeps telling me that he wants whatever is going to make me happy (thanks jerk, I want you to pick) but I guess I'd probably second guess his decisions anyway!

I can't decide on my color scheme, I can't decide our honeymoon, I can't decide the after party, I can't decide the hotel block.. and I literally want to scream... Thank G-d I booked all my major vendors while I was still sane!! Does my indecisiveness mean something? or does everyone feel to some extent that they are finding it impossible to make and stick with decisions...................

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I feel the same exact way...I thought that I pretty much had it all figured out and now i'm questioning everything....location...colors...everything!!! No worries though...a wedding is a big deal and we just want to make sure that everything is nice and dont want to rush into anything!!

Oh my goodness sounds like me.. I had the hardest time picking a hall. I loved a place then my FH didn't so we had to come to an agreement. It def is hard to make decisions but after awhile u just make the one that is most affordable and of course that you love and move on... Otherwise u will have no hair by the time u get married from STRESS ....

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Posted by Melfrank

Omg I am feeling so much better girls thank you so much I was starting to feel like there was something wrong with me or that planning my wedding should come a bit easier.

It's funny cause I am a crazy organizer and planner.. I always wanted to be a weddding planner and I have so many great ideas for everyone else, but for me, how do I pick just 1! lol maybe thats my problem

love you girls!

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Hahaha I own a small wedding planning business myself and its soooo easy to do it for everyone else but for me...please hahahaha

Sorry chica....
Sometimes i go thru the same thing even though i am ONLY planning my E-Party now!!!
I am so unsure on what to pick and I ask my FH and he says 'They are all cute mami, what ever you pick honey..'

lol i think you've figured out I'm way worse than you.

I cant ever decide on anything.

I'm terrified i'll buy a dress nd then hate it later bc i found something wayyy more amazing.

so sorry your stressed!
when i am indecsive about a decision i make a list..i am a list girl lol...i write why i love the idea and any hesitations i may have about the idea...this usally helps me...i also will wait a night or two and see how i feel after i sleep on it...and lastly, i always go with my gut!
and of course you have us if you need help!
xo<3

You're not alone..I get like that too especially when I have too many choices! Like right now I have no idea what to do for our Engagement Party.. Im in between 3 different ideas and its driving me crazy!