Anyone else have a very picky FH? Every step of the way he has been very picky with his choices and it has been very unexpected. He has been this way with STDs, invitations, cocktail napkins, and the registry so far. I love it, but I never expected he'd be that way. I go in ahead of time, pick a few things that he would like so he can choose from those to narrow it down, but he wants to look at all of it!! It's kind of funny haha
hedwards0524
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ME!!!!! you are in the exact situation I am in. FH is usually a carefree person but he is so picky about the STD's and the colors especially! The only thing he really let me have control of was photo and video but other then that he wants equal control.
I got VERY frustrated in the beginning because I felt like the major decisions were my (the brides) job but we talked about it. He explained that this day is just as important to him and that we should be making decisions together and have both voices heard.
I am still frustrated sometimes lol but at least he wants something to do with our big day rather than nothing! I feel you!
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LOL! It's so crazy! Oh, and he also changed our tables to the names of Yankees. I definitely want his input on everything, so I don't mind, but it's really kind of funny because it isn't what you'd expect from a groom!
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My FH is very laid back and hasn't been picky at all, thankfully! Lol But he is involved and has come with me on every appt, given me his opinion when I ask for it and we make all final decisions together which I love. I think it would annoy me if he was one of those grooms who weren't involved and would say 'just tell me whr to be the day of'. Lol
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My FH and I have agreed that I have to present three alternative ideas for all decisions and he is completely involved. He's spent hours on our wedding logo to go on our website, invites etc. No one can believe he is this involved, but it's really fun and I love that this is a joint project for us.
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My FH is really swamped with working 2 jobs (a full time and a part time) as well as a full time student. So basically, while he is involved with everything, I generally go do the research and come back with what I found and things I like. If he doesn't like what I have come up with, I look some more (or tell him he needs to come up with ideas if he is gonna shoot down every one of the ones I come up with). It has worked so far, even with a few times wanting to pound his face in! lol
Noelle2013
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mine is exact opposite!! My fh is laid back and lets me make all the decisions! I rather that since I am a control freak lol
