First off I have to hang my dress in my closet and we live together. I have a sheet wrapped around it and like five ties around it so if he even attempts it he wont be able to. Now I put my wedding dress in my photo album on here I have been hesitating because I dont want him to look am I alone here lmao... im crazy
skinny237
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Post it here for a day or two so we can see it---then delete it. Is there anywhere else u can leave it 'till the big day?
vika111
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Has he been asking you to see it?
Is he very curious?
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WOW, I can't believe you have your dress so early! I picked mine up a couple days before the wedding and kept it at my parents' house. I posted pics here b/c I knew DH would never look.
My DH isn't nosey, so I know he'd never look if I asked him not to. My brother OTOH is a snoop. If my SIL had her dress at their apartment, he'd have peeked.
Depends on your FH! I'm sure if you really explain to him how important it is to you, he won't look.
And honestly... even if he peeks, it'll look totally different on YOU than it will on the hanger and he'll still be surprised!
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he claims he wouldn't ruin it for himself so Im praying for the best. Plus my marriage wont last to long without some trust ha ha ha I have it here because my mom and dad are in florida and my sister has no where really safe to keep it. After I get it altered im going to leave it at my nanas but for now its here
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I am not worried, I don't think FH cares. I don't mean that he doesn't care about the wedding, or what I wear, but I don't think he feels the need to peek...he'd rather play Madden on his PS3
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My FH is always asking me what my dress look like.... Blah blah blah.... (I got mine VERY early as you can see!) I dont have it at the house yet but I will be taking it home next month.... We live with his parents until after the wedding.... And his mother keeps thinking that I am going to keep it here... IM NOT!!!!! I cant leave it at my mother's house because of the animals, so I def wont leave it here with the animals AND the smoking... So Im going to bring it to my father's house and keep it there LOL... That way FH will NEVER be able tp peek!
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You're not crazy. I won't put it in my album or my wedding binder with all my contracts just in case! Not that I don't trust him, but what if by mistake I'm showing him something on her or I tell him to get something out of the binder. I'll ruin it for him!
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your not crazy !!! i cant post anything on here fh is such a lurker he is dying to see it!!!
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FH knows the name of my dress, he heard me on the phone but he swears he won't look. He said he knows how much it means to me and wouldn't want to ruin any part of my day
I won't post it on here though or in my album - FH is a lurker and I wouldn't want to tempt him that much!!! Post it when you know he isn't going to be online, show us, then take it down after
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I did worry about that too. But I think even if he peeks he will still be stunned when he sees you in it on the wed day
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The only people who have seen my dress (or a picture of it) are: mom, bridesmaids, grandparents, mom's friend, OOT friend of mine who is getting married 2 weeks before.
I like the idea of it being a surprise, and I don't want FH to find it! I do have some pictures of it with me in it on my laptop but its in a folder he is unlikely to check, should he go searching.
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That's actually why i didn't take pics in it. I don't think he would try to see it but i thought i would leave the pics somewhere stupid like on the memory stick where if he turns ont he camera he would see it. I dont want it getting leaked LOL i would be so mad!
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Posted by Bellez95
First off I have to hang my dress in my closet and we live together. I have a sheet wrapped around it and like five ties around it so if he even attempts it he wont be able to. Now I put my wedding dress in my photo album on here I have been hesitating because I dont want him to look am I alone here lmao... im crazy
Debi has photos, but refuses to put them on here, because she's afraid Fred will see them. She did show them to his Mom, and she cried, as did I when I saw her in the gown. Mary MOB
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I don't think you have to worry, esp if he said he doesn't want to ruin it My FH doesn't want to know either and he has never asked me directly--once in a while he will see a dress on tv with a really long train and he is like, does yours have a really long train? But I don't think he wants to ruin it for me
KK Holiday
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i dont have to worry about it
my FH doesnt care what my dress looks like... i think all he cares about is whats UNDER it
MJDoc12
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i woudln't worry
remember--even IF he looks at it (which i don't think he will) it really won't matter AT ALL.
the dress on a hanger or even on another model in a pic will give him absoultey NO idea how it will look on you. trust me---its a huge difference when he sees it on you !
