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Anyone else experiencing this?

madseason Posted:

Anyone else experiencing this?

Do any of you have BMs that seemed to have dropped off the face of this earth - or is it just me dealing with the fact that I have no friends?

I need help esp with all the medical going on right now and im just leaving messages once a week..
dannisayz Posted:

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Well, one of MOH plans on going away for a few months. Doesn't know when she'll be back, but she knows she'll be here for my wedding.

Great . . .
mRm2008 Posted:

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angl2001 Posted:

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well if u didnt ask so many questions and be so annoying maybe they wouldnt dissapear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LMAO j/k u know i love you!!

i havent experienced them so much dissapearing but 1 BM is taking off to FL this week to go get MARRIED just so she can beat me!! so i know for a fact my shower wont be until at least the end of march!!!!! and she is a bitchhhhhhhhhhh lol

so i kinda know how u feel
MikeandJess Posted:

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Definitely not just you, mine have been MIA ever since we ordered the bm dresses, well most of them anyway!

anamaree77 Posted:

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Yea a couple of them are either MIA or causing huge problems (FH's daughter is supposed to be my special BM and causing huge controversy ~ great, of all the times, we need this now!!!!). Don't let it get to you, people just suck sometimes.

Just appreciate the people that are there for you more. XO.
JessicaLuvsDanny Posted:

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Posted by angl2001

well if u didnt ask so many questions and be so annoying maybe they wouldnt dissapear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LMAO j/k u know i love you!!

i havent experienced them so much dissapearing but 1 BM is taking off to FL this week to go get MARRIED just so she can beat me!! so i know for a fact my shower wont be until at least the end of march!!!!! and she is a bitchhhhhhhhhhh lol

so i kinda know how u feel



what? is she just eloping?
beachprincess Posted:

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Umm...yeah. Out of seven, five dropped out and I got one replacement. I have not had a whole lot of time to talk to them since we are all pretty busy right now. Sometimes I feel I have no friends cause I don't have the time to go out or call people due to my job, wedding, etc.

Ms Sawney Posted:

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yeah i feel the same some of my bridesmaids are caught up in their own lives I just brush it off

angl2001 Posted:

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Posted by JessicaLuvsDanny


Posted by angl2001

well if u didnt ask so many questions and be so annoying maybe they wouldnt dissapear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LMAO j/k u know i love you!!

i havent experienced them so much dissapearing but 1 BM is taking off to FL this week to go get MARRIED just so she can beat me!! so i know for a fact my shower wont be until at least the end of march!!!!! and she is a bitchhhhhhhhhhh lol

so i kinda know how u feel



what? is she just eloping?



sorta ...they dont have much family and he is divirced and older ( shes 29 he is 50 or 50 something !! dont get me started) but this came about only ..........3 months ago or so once we really started getting inot full speed ahead on MY WEDDING! im annoyed but she has been one of my closest friends since we were like 11 or 12 so im just letting it go......
JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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Posted by madseason

Do any of you have BMs that seemed to have dropped off the face of this earth - or is it just me dealing with the fact that I have no friends?

I need help esp with all the medical going on right now and im just leaving messages once a week..



booo! i haven't been dealing w that...but if there's anything you need help w that i can do...i'll totally do it!!
susdoug Posted:

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Posted by beachprincess

Umm...yeah. Out of seven, five dropped out and I got one replacement. I have not had a whole lot of time to talk to them since we are all pretty busy right now. Sometimes I feel I have no friends cause I don't have the time to go out or call people due to my job, wedding, etc.



Oh my gosh...that sux...you totally know how I am feeling then...you also helped me on my 'Please help' thread.

My BMs were MIA, but now are causing problems.
xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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Posted by susdoug


Posted by beachprincess

Umm...yeah. Out of seven, five dropped out and I got one replacement. I have not had a whole lot of time to talk to them since we are all pretty busy right now. Sometimes I feel I have no friends cause I don't have the time to go out or call people due to my job, wedding, etc.



Oh my gosh...that sux...you totally know how I am feeling then...you also helped me on my 'Please help' thread.

My BMs were MIA, but now are causing problems.



i am.. and thats why they were cut OUT of the wedding before it came to this

im sorry
madseason Posted:

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Posted by JeanetteandSteve


Posted by madseason

Do any of you have BMs that seemed to have dropped off the face of this earth - or is it just me dealing with the fact that I have no friends?

I need help esp with all the medical going on right now and im just leaving messages once a week..



booo! i haven't been dealing w that...but if there's anything you need help w that i can do...i'll totally do it!!



you are a sweetheart thanks!

Since ive been sick and im not getting any better, I need some help with getting things together. And one of these girls is getting married in 09 - shell call me when she needs help to look over papers for halls for her wedding or dresses or questions or things about a designer. I feel like im desperate. Even my sis/MOH says no one is getting back to her emails. Some friends. I make myself too available to people.

sorry - im cranky and in more pain than usual this evening.
lovebear7800 Posted:

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yep i have the same problem i call and leave messages and don't hear back and finally after a couple of weekes i finally hear from them.

autumnbride08 Posted:

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I TOTALLY get how you girls are feeling.

Out of my 4 BM's, the only 1 I hear from on a weekly basis is my MOH, and that's only b/c she's my sister!

I think it's hysterical how I planned a date to go BM dress shopping, and they all knew about it for a verrrrrrry long time, yet they all managed to cancel the day before.
madseason Posted:

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im glad im not the only one whos feeling this way. Im just annoyed that one got married in Oct and I was always there for her, and with the one in 09 who I am always there for. I really need their help. its funny too I go on their myspace pages to see whats going on and its not like they are dormant either. Pissessssss me off...........

xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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Posted by madseason

im glad im not the only one whos feeling this way. Im just annoyed that one got married in Oct and I was always there for her, and with the one in 09 who I am always there for. I really need their help. its funny too I go on their myspace pages to see whats going on and its not like they are dormant either. Pissessssss me off...........



and THAT consistantly was happeneing to me.. and i was FED up and thats really what pushed me to the end...

i can reach out and out for MONTHS and u will avoid me but post 829374293478 times on others ppl sites.. and not just 'hi' but stories.... yeah get teh F out

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