I can't stop thinking that after all this work and effort, and trying to make sure everything I picked out will look great -how the hell is this all going to come together and look good? I fell like there are so many elements, from so many different places (dresses, flowers, tuxes, cake and then all the small details), that its just going to look like a big mish mash of things thrown together. I think everything goes together and 'works', but will anyone else think the same thing, or will they think, 'what the heck was she thinking?' I can't stop worrying about this
jettahot
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YUP! I am such a control freak too! I had a meltdown yesterday (my 1st one) Regarding things of this nature and I need to get a grip!!! Our day is going to be wonderful regardless, we just dont have a clear picture of that yet
CroatianBride
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I did until I realized no one else but FH and I have to like it. One of my friends weddings was barely even planned and still came together nice. Don't worry, you are picking everything for a reason, I'm sure it'll look great!
rosatemp
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i do...and i get told it will all fall into place but i still stress because i want it to be perfect and i want everyone to love it...
chilly313
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Thanks. It helps to know I'm not the only onw who feels this way.
FDNYwife1029
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I feel that way too at times but I have decided not to let all the little small details stress me out... I am trying to just take it day by day & enjoy every sec. you don't enjoy the planning if all you do is stress.
ColliMac23
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Totally felt like this but don't doubt yourself! Everything came out amazing and yours will too!
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Totally felt like this but don't doubt yourself! Everything came out amazing and yours will too!
Looking at the pics of your wedding, everything looked so beautiful. It's nice to know you had these kind of thoughts and then to see how wonderful everything was. Thanks!!!
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TRUST ME - it all comes together
you dont know how - but the day always comes together
the vendors do this for a living and they are experts at what they do