I just have no desire to do any wedding plans. My wedding is 10 months away and I have sooooo much to do, but I just dont feel like doing it. Last year at this time I was so excited and I wanted to do everything, but it was to early. I don't know what to do to get me motivated. I still have two big vendors to do, florist and limos and about a million other things.
Thumballina
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I feel like this somedays...I've booked some big vendors already and have basically come to a stand still with the others...I think its because we're getting married next year and it seems a bit early to have to get everything done...I think you'll get more motivation once the year starts coming to an end...I say enjoy the summer and then start getting back into planning mode...
shellnroc
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Yes...I totally know how you feel. I have not been motivated at all!!! I have so many things to do. I just don't feel like doing anything. Plus the last couple of weeks have been rough for me, I keep getting sick. Also my friend is getting married this July and I was getting her shower together and now our dresses came in and I have to go for a fitting but I still have to get my shoes. Which I don't feel like doing either. It's terrible! I hope I get over this slump soon.
LaurenluvsTJ
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yea, I got all the big vendors done, and I am so glad because I have had enough of making appointments and having to drive all over to go to them. Now I can relax... I will worry about all the little things after the summer.
DCSAAB06
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Yes! You are not alone! Everyone is asking how far I got with the planning and whats next. Im like, I booked 3 important ones and at a halt. Im impressed I got that much done. No dress yet either....looked just once. The motivation isnt there and I feel like if Im rushing it all & what if I change my mind! Sounds crazy, but thats me! I also dont like shelling out the money as quickly! I know I will have to hand it over eventually but I like holding onto it a little bit, gradually Plus, Im busy w/two jobs and FH is doing some major OT. No time to be running around.
cindyandkevin
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You've still got plenty of time to do limos and flowers. I say def take a break for awhile and after missing all the fun you'll be excited to jump back into planning.
OctBride05
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yeah, I think i am just going to take a break for a month and then I'll start up planning again. I hope by then I am more excited about it. I just feel so blah lately.
kellwolfe
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I feel like that I dont think I am going to do a thing untill the summer is over ...but lets face it I have 18 mts. and a few big venders booked already
serendipity0680
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Yes I totally feel that way somedays but other days I love planning and anticipating my wedding day.
