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Anyone else have two MOHs

jackiez Posted:

Anyone else have two MOHs

that absolutely hate eachother?

Sorry, just need to vent...It is a horrible, horrible situation, that I guess I brought on by asking both of them (one is my cousin and one is my best friend). I had my shower last weekend and they started fighting about 3 minutes into the shower. They have cut eachother off of e-mail distributions (each of them will e-mail the rest of the bridal party with info about the bachelorette party and leave the other one off of the e-mail). They make it quite clear that they hate eachother and I am at the point where I am beginning to hate both of them.
nferrandi Posted:

Re: Anyone else have two MOHs

I would speak to both of them individually. Let them know that although you understand that they're not crazy about each other, that you really hope they can put that aside for your wedding, since they are both obviously very important people in your life.

maria5-6-05 Posted:

Re: Anyone else have two MOHs

I have two MOH's but fortunately they don't hate each other. I can empathize with your situation though. They are very different and have very different opinions on things..especially the bachellorette party.

I agree...I would talk to them individually and explain that they don't have to like each other...this is about you, not them so the least they could do is be civil to each other.

Good Luck!
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

Re: Anyone else have two MOHs

I have a maid and matron, both my sisters. they don't get along very well. but since 1 of them lives in CA and the other NY, I am hoping they can pull it together the week of the wedding.
lisaslove Posted:

Re: Anyone else have two MOHs

i understand im in the same boat.. i have two MOH also who arent to fond of each. but i know everything will be fine. you just need to speak to both of them and remind them that its all about you and to put there differences aside.

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