anyone else make themselves sick worrying???

as we continue to work on the house, i feel this pit in my stomach that everything is so expensive and am afraid we will never have enough $$$$!

every time we think, ok...there's another cost for something - ergh!

My FH is like this!!! He says since we got engaged, he just cant stop worrying!
Theres the house we are buying (which has not been a smooth transaction), the wedding we are planning, the honeymoon (yes he even worrys about this), his bachelor party (he is not looking forward to this - I dont know), work, and now I am changing jobs in 2 weeks!
Poor kid is going to give himself an ulcer!!
Sorry I dont have any words of advice, except relax, you dont have to accomplish everythign in just one day, so tackle one thing at a time and dont look too much at the big picture....the big picture can sometiems be overwhelming!!!

yes!! I worry about everything especially money and health!!!
I drive my self absolutely nuts! I wish I knew how to stop
because It def has caused me health problems already.

YES

i am like OH MY GOD how are we ever going to afford anything ever again....

I am always worrying about buying the house, paying for the wedding and and HM. My FI is calm, cool and collected. I dont know how, but I wish he would worry a little so that I wouldnt do it all.

UGH!!! I love my house, but it seems everytime we get caught up with things, something else goes.
We had our annual oil burner service today. The technician recommended that we replace the burner, because it is original and on its last legs. This could run 3000$+++
Now, we have a seperate home warranty (from the sellers) that will cover up to 1500 for a burner/furnace if their technician deems it necessary. The catch- there is a 95$ fee for them to walk in the door, and I'm afraid they are going to say no because technically, the burner is still working. But we won't know until they check it out. I called our oil company so I fully understood what they were saying- and they're going to send a manager to give us a second opinion.
I am a complete worrier about stuff like this. DH shrugs it off...

We had to redo every aspect of our home!!!

Upgrade the electric (the existing electric wouldn't support an airconditioner!!!)
gut the entire house,
new heating system,
central air,
plumbing
added a master bedroom suite
Sanded and refinshed all hardwood floors
the list goes on!!!

So, I FEEL YOUR PAIN!!!

Just take your time! We didn't rush to get everything done at once, it's been a 4 year project, and that entire list above is complete (well, except for the master bathroom, which is in the process of renovation).

It all takes time, but it'll be worth it in the end.