Anyone else struggling with BP selection?
My FH has SEVEN ushers! Two are his brothers, one is my brother, and the other 4 are very very close friends that even I want in the BP.
So here's the problem. I personally would prefer a smaller bridal party - maybe 4 girls. There is no way FH will leave any of his ushers out - and I do not want him to anyway. But I keep getting caught up in trying to make it seem balanced. I know you do not HAVE to have the same # of ladies and gents, but 7 versus 4!! That would look strange. But I do not want to ask other girls just to keep it balanced. That is not a good reason and I am sure will leave room for problems to arise.
I just hate this whole BP thing. It is causing me the most stress out of all the wedding planning! Isn't that awful!
Needed to vent. Anyone else having these issues?
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So here's the problem. I personally would prefer a smaller bridal party - maybe 4 girls. There is no way FH will leave any of his ushers out - and I do not want him to anyway. But I keep getting caught up in trying to make it seem balanced. I know you do not HAVE to have the same # of ladies and gents, but 7 versus 4!! That would look strange. But I do not want to ask other girls just to keep it balanced. That is not a good reason and I am sure will leave room for problems to arise.
I just hate this whole BP thing. It is causing me the most stress out of all the wedding planning! Isn't that awful!
Needed to vent. Anyone else having these issues?
