I feel like I need a 'Calgon' day EVERYDAY. My house is in chaos EVERYDAY and it is stressing my out to the gills! If one kid is not whining or crying, the other one is. Amanda is CONSTANTLY bothering her brother (since his birth-20 months ago). Everything is always just too loud. Now that Amanda is on Adderall XR, when it wears off, she is out of her skin, having a fit over everything. We hardly see a change out of her on the weekends but her teacher said she has seen a complete turn-around in school. That is great, BUT not for us. I am sooo stressed out between work and home I can't take it anymore. Anyone help?!-lol! Thanks for listening.
iffer042373
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I understand what your going through I have a 10 month old and I work full time 5 days a week when I get home my house is a wreck cuz she takes everything out. Also my future husband tried to help out and clean but doesn't always look like he did anything. So then I come home and cook dinner then after eating give marissa a bath put her to sleep between 8 and 9pm then I start to straighten up the apartment take a shower then by the time I have to relax its around 11 11:30pm and its time for bed then it starts all over a gain
Hazeleyes33
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Posted by iffer042373
I understand what your going through I have a 10 month old and I work full time 5 days a week when I get home my house is a wreck cuz she takes everything out. Also my future husband tried to help out and clean but doesn't always look like he did anything. So then I come home and cook dinner then after eating give marissa a bath put her to sleep between 8 and 9pm then I start to straighten up the apartment take a shower then by the time I have to relax its around 11 11:30pm and its time for bed then it starts all over a gain
Thanks. It's good to know that I am not the only one!
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jennifer I am with ya on this one!!!! Totally, I work full time (M-F) and have a 13 month old at home as well. He has recently started throwing tantrums and screaming when he does not get his way, he also does not want to go to bed. It is a constant fight to get him into bed anytime before 10pm. I do not know how these women have 2 and 3 children that are 2 years apart? I am not even going to think of having another for another 2-3 years at least!
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jennifer I am with ya on this one!!!! Totally, I work full time (M-F) and have a 13 month old at home as well. He has recently started throwing tantrums and screaming when he does not get his way, he also does not want to go to bed. It is a constant fight to get him into bed anytime before 10pm. I do not know how these women have 2 and 3 children that are 2 years apart? I am not even going to think of having another for another 2-3 years at least!
My kids are 5 years apart and it is no better-lol!!
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Posted by iffer042373
I understand what your going through I have a 10 month old and I work full time 5 days a week when I get home my house is a wreck cuz she takes everything out. Also my future husband tried to help out and clean but doesn't always look like he did anything. So then I come home and cook dinner then after eating give marissa a bath put her to sleep between 8 and 9pm then I start to straighten up the apartment take a shower then by the time I have to relax its around 11 11:30pm and its time for bed then it starts all over a gain
I hear ya ladies. I work two jobs, so my day starts at 6:30 (getting the babies stuff ready for Mom's, feeding the pets, cleaning up, getting breakfast on for everyone, getting my lunch put together, shower, etc.). I leave by 8:30, work from 9:00ish until 5:30, then leave, go to the second job by 5:45 or 6:00, work until 8:00-8:30 and get home by 9:00-9:30. Make myself dinner, see the baby for a few minutes before she's off to bed. Open mail, settle down for about 15 minutes before bed to start it again. The weekends aren't much better because I have to clean the fish tank, laundry, shopping, chores, cleaning, etc. It's a never-ending rat race and I feel so burnt out.
's to all the hard working Momma's out there
Hazeleyes33
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Posted by iffer042373
I understand what your going through I have a 10 month old and I work full time 5 days a week when I get home my house is a wreck cuz she takes everything out. Also my future husband tried to help out and clean but doesn't always look like he did anything. So then I come home and cook dinner then after eating give marissa a bath put her to sleep between 8 and 9pm then I start to straighten up the apartment take a shower then by the time I have to relax its around 11 11:30pm and its time for bed then it starts all over a gain
I hear ya ladies. I work two jobs, so my day starts at 6:30 (getting the babies stuff ready for Mom's, feeding the pets, cleaning up, getting breakfast on for everyone, getting my lunch put together, shower, etc.). I leave by 8:30, work from 9:00ish until 5:30, then leave, go to the second job by 5:45 or 6:00, work until 8:00-8:30 and get home by 9:00-9:30. Make myself dinner, see the baby for a few minutes before she's off to bed. Open mail, settle down for about 15 minutes before bed to start it again. The weekends aren't much better because I have to clean the fish tank, laundry, shopping, chores, cleaning, etc. It's a never-ending rat race and I feel so burnt out.
's to all the hard working Momma's out there
Doesn't it stink??!! We all need to win the lotto!!-lol
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Chaos feels like an understatement for my house on some days. 2 toddlers, working, runnign the house and almost 8 months pregnanct with my 3rd, I feel as if calgon was made for me!!! :)
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Chaos feels like an understatement for my house on some days. 2 toddlers, working, runnign the house and almost 8 months pregnanct with my 3rd, I feel as if calgon was made for me!!! :)
Oh, God Bless you!! I am sooo done with my 2-no more-lol!!