I am always second guessing my decisions...anyone else feel like that? Sometimes I feel like what's wrong with me?? I had my shower and now I absolutely hate my everyday dishes! I went yesterday and picked out all new ones...I mean am I loosing it??
wacky
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I have done that with everything Ive booked. We cancelled our first hall, then I hated my dress and now Im in the process of changing our invites. I think its nerves.
christy
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I have doubted every decision I have made so far, except saying YES to my FH! I think it is normal. Now that it is getting closer I cant make a single decision without thinking it is the 'wrong' decision. Hang in there!
bride082003
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I am ALWAYS doing this. After I pick something out I find something else I like but I always wind up going back to my 1st choice! I try to stick with my gutt...
LisaT
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I defintely felt that way after everything was finalized, but it the end it was all perfect!
Cindy
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I did it throughout my planning. What I have learned is go with your first instinct
lilmrs
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I do it all the time!
hotelcalie
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Glad to see I'm not going crazy...and if I am you're all coming with me!!
wacky
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Im already there
IrishTracy
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I have done it w/ just about everything!! I'm so nervous! I just want everything (close to) perfect!! It is nerve racking!!
shamma
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Sweetie fret not it happens to the best of us. My advice to you is, after you have picked something do not look at anymore of that item. It causes you to always have the feeling that what you see is better than what you have. I wanted to change my dress, my hall, my plans, every darn thing at one point or another. It will all come together I promise.
Happy planning
LizD
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I used to do the same thing. A few months ago I just decided, 'this is it, I have made a decision, don't look at that (whatever it is) anymore'. I say it to myself all the time. There are so many great ideas and things out there. Go with your gut and stick with it. I am sure you will not be disappointed in the end. You will drive yourself crazy otherwise!!
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I usually try to not think about it after I make a decision....It is easier that way for me anyway...I have tooo much going on in my life right now so It is very easy not to dwell
jennbaby
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I have second guess everything from my dress to my photogrpaher...but then I sit back & look at what I picked and I smile...then I know it's right.
Sassy
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Phew, and I thought I was the only one
sept20yay!
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I think I have an illness... I'm not kidding...I am really obsessed. I think about my wedding I think once an hour or something at least. Sometimes I can't sleep thinking about it or getting excited about it. I have second guessed almost all my vendors-- I'm scared that my photographer will not get enough sleep the night before my wedding and will be not alert enough to get good shots... I'm scared that I didn't do a good enough job researching and maybe decided too quick. Same with band and video. I hope this stops soon---- I'm out of control!! In my heart I know the day will be great!
Leap29
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i do it all the time as well...FH thinks i'm crazy!!!
karen32
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I think it's 100% normal!!!!!!! We all do it - think about it - it's the most expensive 8 hours of our lives!!!!!! We stress ourselves making sure every little detail is perfect.
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I think it's totally normal to have second thoughts about things.... I mean you only get married once and you want it to be the most perfect day ever, right? I think we can all agree with that one. I've only booked my hall and already have had second thoughts - even though deep down I know it was the best choice for us.
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I second guess EVERYTHING!!! seriously EVERYTHING!!! I even lost a $1200 deposit at Vera Wang b/c I changed my mind on my gown... It's crazy..... I think I have an illness as well....but you are all right - I think it's normal....I just hope I can stick with a decision before FH kills me.....
