Anyone ever..

Anyone ever..

Has anyone ever backed out on a vendor at the last minute? (for whatever reason) In my case there was no contract signed, but I was a day away from signing it. I feel bad about it doing that, but I am just curious about how many brides (besides me) have done this before. Thanks for any replies!

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If you didn't sign a contract, don't sweat it. We gave a guy a deposit and yanked it back at the last second...I felt like a heel, but it had to be done....

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it's done far more often than you might think. Do what you feel is right to get the wedding you want to and don't feel bad about it!!

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Don't feel bad. People do it all the time, sometimes after the contract is signed.

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**** we backed out of a signed catering contract, dont feel bad

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Until you sign that contract your not bound to them. dont worry about it. thats why they have you sign a contract and leave a deposit.
dont fret

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I'm thinking about doing it right now. I also haven't signed a contract but I have it in front of me. I'm just having second thoughts. I feel badly about it too, but I guess it's better to be confident in who you select than not to upset the vendor. It's going to be hard though!

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If you havent signed a contract I wouldnt feel bad, if you are having second thoughts about the vendor...DONT go with them. This is YOUR day...chose who you feel comfortable with

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If you didn't sign a contract then your not backing out. Don't feel bad. Remember it's your wedding!!!

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Thanks for all the responses. I am so paranoid about even posting which vendor I am using instead because I am afraid the vendor I backed out of will see it! (they are both vendors that advertise on this site). If anyone wants to know who I backed out of and why, feel free to FM me. Good luck with planning ladies!

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