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Anyone feel that whatever they say gets twisted???

sammi102 Posted:

Anyone feel that whatever they say gets twisted???

Hey ladies,

This whole wedding planning is stressful enough but I feel that everything I say to my side of the family gets twisted around and then when it gets back to me, it's something totally different about FH's family. It's driving me crazy!

For example... I'm in the process of looking at BM's dresses, and still have not decided on color/style... the whole 9 yards. So my mom and sister send me a link to a dress which I really didn't like online. And I told my family that. When I spoke to FMIL, she told me she went dress 'looking' the other day and saw a beautiful BM dress and she described it to me and it was the one that my mom sent over to me. So I tell my mom that and we both thought it was very funny how I hated it online, but that she loved it in the store. I guess I have to look at in the store. anyway... I speak to my sister last night and it comes through to me that they think that my FMIL wants to wear a BM's dress to the wedding. This twisting of words has happened more than once and is adding to the stress!!!!!

AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

Just needed to get that off my chest... Thanks for listening!
palebride Posted:

Re: Anyone feel that whatever they say gets twisted???


it gets worse....
just kidding!!
keeping the lines of communication open and keeping an open mind are two things i found to be incredibly importnat during the is porcess!!!
kathleenmarie Posted:

Re: Anyone feel that whatever they say gets twisted???

No, it DOES get worse! LOL!!!! hang in there!be specifiic! remember you are allowed to change your mind!

sammi102 Posted:

Re: Anyone feel that whatever they say gets twisted???

Thanks ladies! I don't mind, and I'm not trying to be a control freak, but just don't twist what I say around!!!

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