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Anyone good at analyzing dreams?

jhines4684 Posted:

Anyone good at analyzing dreams?

I keep having these awful, heart breaking dreams about FH. Either he's leaving me or with someone else.

They feel intensely real, and it's happening more and more as I approach the wedding date and it leaves me in tears every morning. I have no doubt in my mind that FH is like this at all or would be like this, I know he'd never leave me and I do know I am the only woman in his eye, as he is to me.

I have no idea what inner fear in me causes this. Could it be possible that it's just my past creeping up on me? Every guy I had has left me for someone else, usually younger and very much more prettier than me.
MerSaysEh Posted:

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i have these sometimes too, or kinda the opposite where one of me exes is insisting he's my fiance and i'm like freaking out because I can't find FH.

i think its a perfectly normal expression of anxiety leading up to the wedding and though they can feel terrifying and disturbing I really don't think its anything to worry about!!

Linzee636 Posted:

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I've had a few of these dream before too, where FH is with his ex and they're talking about me, or in one, he was hooking up with his ex in front of me and trying to explain why he was doing it and that it was okay.

I woke up feeling suepr heartbroken too.

I think it's normal stress from the wedding, which is sad since it's manifesting itself in the form of nightmares, but thankfully it is only a nightmare and your FH is with you for a reason.

That's what I always tell myself... even when FH and I fight over wedding stress, we are with each other for a reason and we are committed to getting married and being only with each other. Don't let your dreams affect 'real life'
Kristan35 Posted:

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I think its totally normal. I've had a bunch of those dreams too! Don't let them get to you too much.

jackieee Posted:

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Posted by MerSaysEh

i have these sometimes too, or kinda the opposite where one of me exes is insisting he's my fiance and i'm like freaking out because I can't find FH.

i think its a perfectly normal expression of anxiety leading up to the wedding and though they can feel terrifying and disturbing I really don't think its anything to worry about!!




I had those dreams too...just like what you said Mer. I was with an ex and I couldnt find Dino. It would bug me out!!
wenR Posted:

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unless you are psychic, do not take those dreams literally.
I heard somewhere that dreams are from your subconscious and they portray your biggest fears or greatest wishes.
I used to have recurring dreams that there was money under my pillow and I have not found any money to this day. Relax, girl..its more likely that its that last thing you said.
jhines4684 Posted:

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thanks girls. :)

KrisD72310 Posted:

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I definitely had these dreams too before the wedding and would wake up crying. Don't worry, I think it's normal since so many of us have had them
allornil Posted:

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I've had those too. It's normal. It's just your subconscious fears letting go in your dreams.

Hell if dreams were real i'd be a Billionaire living in a mansion married to one of the zillion celebrities i've dreamed about. Lol

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