im guilty of doing this recently...any time i talk to anyone especially FH im always like 'well i love my photographer, i know my pictures will be beautiful...' i NEVER say 'our pictures'
or im going to so and so place for My honeymoon, i forget to say 'our honeymoon'
maybe cuz ive been planning the WHOLE wedding myself... therefore i do feel like its MYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY wedding ...
qtdimps23
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im so with you!!! FH yells at me all the time. hes like...dont you mean OUR blah blah blah. lol yeah, whatever...ours.
Jennifer907
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So guilty. And my response to FH is 'What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine!'
bettybcafe
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Guilty!! I do it all the time...Im always like
'My wedding this, and my wedding that' I have to constantly correct myself.
I was married once before about 10+ years ago. That wedding I said 'my' but this time I always say 'our' It just slips out of my mouth like that without thought.
Dee606
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I always do that. Even when I'm talking to FH I will say MY wedding... lol
Flutterbye922
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I do it sometimes, alright most of the time. I always catch myself and think 'Oops, it is OUR wedding!'
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today I just post 'I booked my HM today'(still on the 07 forum) If you notice, I said 'I BOOKED' Instead 'We BOOKED' Dont worry, you are not the only one
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Oh I definitely do this all the time! You are not alone!
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Posted by luvabul
im guilty of doing this recently...any time i talk to anyone especially FH im always like 'well i love my photographer, i know my pictures will be beautiful...' i NEVER say 'our pictures'
or im going to so and so place for My honeymoon, i forget to say 'our honeymoon'
maybe cuz ive been planning the WHOLE wedding myself... therefore i do feel like its MYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY wedding ...
its strange i kinda forget he is a part of this too
luvabul
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yeah maybe cuz theyre so UNinvolved
laural2979
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FH sent out an email to all of the groomsmen. He said 'This is where you need to order tuxes for my wedding.' I won't let him live it down now.
CrisiDrue
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OMG......my FH hates this! He's always joking that I wouldn't even notice if he didn't show up b/c its 'MY' wedding!
stealthgroom
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Funny, FW never refers to it as her wedding, I wonder why...?
not yet, anyway. Maybe once we're dealing with things like floral arrangements, she will. Even I have limits.
Christys0925
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All the time !!!! FH catched me all the time. He thinks it's funny !
PegaLega
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VERY GUILTY! ANd for the same reason...Im doing just about everything myself so I feel like it is MY wedding!!!
fallinlove91407
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guilty here too --- I am ALWAYS self correcting myself when I do that ---I feel bad sometimes, like it's 'my' wedding instead of 'ours'. I have to be more aware that I do that
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i'm so there...i was vventing tonight to FH about my BM and i quote ' THIS IS MY WEDDING, MY WEDDING' he just looked at me and laughed
vmystique33
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I do the same thing alll the time
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YES!!!!!!! And the funny thing is that we realize we are doing it. ( I mean you and I and anyone of the other girls)
I am waiting for the day he says something but I guess he doesn't realize. But I catch myself all the time and sometimes I even fel selfish that it came out of my mouth!!!