I cannot believe I would have drama on the guys side! I for certain thought it would be the bridesmaids lol. One of my groomsmen has been so nasty to me and actually made me cry the other night all because i'm friends with his now ex (who is one of my bridesmaids!) Unreal how immature some people are. High school all over again ugh. I don't even know how to deal with this nonsense.
kattus
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I'm sorry to hear about that. One of my FH's groomsmen has become reclusive and won't talk to anyone, so we are thinking of having him hit the road. Unfortunately, men can cause just as much drama as women (although they would rather be tortured than admit this!)
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My FH has 7 GM and I only care for 3 of them, I stay FAR FAR away from them so they piss me off and MY FH deal with them completely !!! Try to stay away ladies
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no drama yet but FH is reconsidering his bachelor party plans due to one GM who is a cheating dbag type. No one wants to feel like they have to 'keep a secret' after he cheats on his girlfriend, so FH is trying to be creative with the plans rather than put him in the mouth of a lions den, so to speak.
It pisses me off, royally.
pixietina
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Men can be such annoying babies. I had to drop the best man which is now replaced, but I am short one groomsman.
Evan820
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thankfully they worked it out, but my FH had a HUGE blow out (like neve speak to me again) with his only GM that is not a fam member. They fought like girls, but unlike girls they make up. I would def talk to FH about his GM though- don't let him make you feel bad!!
no drama yet but FH is reconsidering his bachelor party plans due to one GM who is a cheating dbag type. No one wants to feel like they have to 'keep a secret' after he cheats on his girlfriend, so FH is trying to be creative with the plans rather than put him in the mouth of a lions den, so to speak.
It pisses me off, royally.
That is seriously f-ed up. It'd probably start a war, but the douchey GM should just be left out so that the others could do whatever they were planning on.
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oh trust me, I went off on FH about it. They were going to AC for a night or two, but now he thinks they should just to out to an all-u-can-drink type of bar in the city instead. The BM's are all HS friends and all hate covering for him, or knowing he cheated/lied etc. I told FH he should confront this dbag GM (he hates when I call his friend that lol) and tell him it's not HIS night, it's FH's night.
Whatever, May is a bit of time away, so maybe he will get up the courage to confront the dbag. I love that word, rolls off the tongue. Try it!
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I cant even deal with itttt ughh. i feel like my wedding is gonna turn into a drunken college party with dramaaaa. My FH has not even brought up the whole fight between me and his groomsmen and it happened on Saturday! I would at least expect my FH to make him apologize or something..So much pent up anger. If only men knew how much work we put into these weddings. Imagine if they had to plan it all?
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Hopefully you can talk to him about it and not say what you expect him to do but that you feel hurt and would like him to do. As far as men they are ridiculous... Our best man and MOH were dating and now aren't. Her and I are close but FH and him are best friends. Luckily with 6mths ago they are very friendly towards each other and we hope they get back together. But we are happy they are just not nasty to each other bc that would be weird. We have a wedding party of 4ppl so it would be bad!